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I've just found out that my boyfriend wanks over my friends (why the fuck he told me i do not know) and i was wondering you boys in relationships do you wank over your girlfriends friends??
I know he wanks over porn and shit, but that doesnt matter, its there for a reason, to turn blokes on, but my friends are just normal people that ive introduced him to and that he hangs around with and then he goes home and wanks over them..it has really hurt and upset me, but do all blokes do it?
I know he wanks over porn and shit, but that doesnt matter, its there for a reason, to turn blokes on, but my friends are just normal people that ive introduced him to and that he hangs around with and then he goes home and wanks over them..it has really hurt and upset me, but do all blokes do it?
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However, the fact that he actualy told you... disturbing.
Doesn't stop you having the odd fantasy over various celebrities you don't actualy know mind, hehe.
Really try to make him understand how much he's hurt you, and at least make him keep stuff like that to himself.
But after I've said that Russian snipers tend to approach me from a distance and I notice bullets whizzing past my head every so often
Tell him how you feel.
By the way, I recommend reading Dan Savage's sex advice - he's a hilarious brutal-realist columnist, gay for that matter but talks about everything, and he's covered stuff like this. It can give you a good laugh if nothing else. I know it's syndicated by New York's Village Voice:
http://www.villagevoice.com/hotspot/
No (Me personally) I don't need to fancy someone to wank over them.
I just use a fantasy I have and add the girl to it (That was before I got my hands on porn tho) but I guess your bf use's one of your mates to fulfil his fantasy. I doubt it means he likes you any less
ask him what your friend were doing to him in his wank (Er. I mean he might have something that turns him on that you think would be nasty so he can't use you to do?) -does that make sense? (It didn't to me)
Has your bf got porn as well?,I wouldn't wank over one of my gf mates.(Unless I run out of porn, and I couldn't use my gf in this fantasy)
If in doubt buy him so porn or ask him to tell you why he used your friend and not you!
If you think its a big deal (I don't think it is)
Hehe i'll warn them!
We can't flirt on here sexy, It's upsetting everyone!
We'll have to use Pm's
How is that flirting?
Fine guess i'll just chat to you on MSN...:p
Well thank God for that!
Its not, but some members may deem it as flirting so we better stop, at this rate we should just stop talking to each other!:p
heh! The world isn't all sugar and spice and all things nice. If you didn't want the truth then why ask the question? Was you running out of things to say so decided to ask a petty question that he took seriously and replied with 100% honesty? That'll learn ya.
Personally I haven't made a habit of masturbating about a girlfriends mates. I did date one girl though and while having sex with her I realised there was no way in hell that I was going to cum. I managed it in the end but only by imagining fucking her best mate. As I cum she whispered to me (in the fantasy) "Let this be our secret". I think i told the story on here before.
So things could be worse, your boyf could be doing things like I was doing back then.