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Tight...still

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Yes i know, vie been here long enough to know that i should do a search but well i know the answers and they aint really what im after.

My g/f of about ten months now was a virgin when we met, i corrupted her cos im naughty ;) not that she didnt mind. Anyways shes still really tight, the problem is, i cant really get my dick into her without it really hurting her, which she then pushes me away, which is fair enough, if it hurts her, then well she has a right, i never force her to do anything.

And thats the problem really, if i try to make her a bit wider it hurts and she pushes me away as it really turns her off. Even when fingering her its still tight and she finds it painful if i use more than one finger. We do do lots of fore play together, but she gets dry really quickly too, she'll be soaking wet first off but then gets dry quickly again, which can also be the problem.

Just wondering whats the best solution to keep her wet and to make her looser so it doesnt hurt her as much and so we can have sex properly. I know i could just forceibly stretch her but then thats just totally wrong, and im not the type of bloke to just shove it all the way in no matter what. Just wanted some simple advice thats all.
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    LUBRICATE!!!! Can make all the difference, get some KY jelly, or go to a brook clinic or summat, cos they'll give it to you for free... Also, does she have any hang ups about sex? She could be causing it psychologically. And there's always the physical to remember - it is rare, but some girls are actually physically too small to have sex and have to have an op. I suggest that she sees a doctor if the lubrication doesn't help- even if it is just to check out that she has no psychological problems, best to know, cos sex shouldn't hurt. Hope that helped!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sa-ra-ra-ra's right, they even do flavoured lubricant to add to the fun :D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sa-ra-ra-ras said it all. Mooch :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    woohoo! *is all knowledgeble* Unfortnately, i can't spell it. I don't think.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Knowledgeable actually :p

    This does, however, not prove conclusively that you are not all knowledgeable, despite the misspelling of knowledgeable easily being misinterpretable as evidence of non all knowledgeableness.

    You could easily be trying to disguise your ability of being all knowledgeable by purposely misspelling 'knowledgeable' in a worthy attempt to fool us into believing that you're just like one of us.

    *shuts up*
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Shukes
    You could easily be trying to desiguise you're ability of being all knowledgeable by purposely misspelling 'knowledgeable' in a worty attempt to fool us into believing that you're just like one of us.

    Yeah, that's what i was doing. And at least i don't misuse you're and your :p

    And disguise is spelt like that. :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hehe, what are you talking about? I made no spelling or grammatical errors in my previous post at all! ;)

    *Shukey slowly strokes and carresses the sexually appealing, despite being inanimate, "Edit" button*

    Hehe :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Shukes

    *Shukey slowly strokes and carresses the sexually appealing, despite being inanimate, "Edit" button*

    Hehe :p

    I'm worried :eek2:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You're not worried about me really, you'd have to care about me for that - in fact you're just mildly disturbed :p

    However, I suppose you could be worried for society as a whole - I'm sure that learning of my sexual perversion in favour of those cute slinky "Edit" buttons has made you wonder if peer pressure and the commercialisation of sex has attributed to it.

    *Shuts up*

    *Again*
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Shukes
    You're not worried about me really, you'd have to care about me for that - in fact you're just mildly disturbed :p

    However, I suppose you could be worried for society as a whole - I'm sure that learning of my sexual perversion in favour of those cute slinky "Edit" buttons has made you wonder if peer pressure and the commercialisation of sex can attributed to it.

    *Shuts up*

    *Again*

    *is definately worried* :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    With good reason too! I should be locked up me! :crazyeyes:

    Still, I am lovely. Not in a good way mind. Just in a kind, loving, cute, understanding - but nevertheless, disturbing kind of loveliness.

    Hehe. :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Shukes
    With good reason too! I should be locked up me! :crazyeyes:

    Still, I am lovely. Not in a good way mind. Just in a kind, loving, cute, understanding - but nevertheless, disturbing kind of loveliness.

    Hehe. :)

    :lol:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Sa-ra-ra-ra


    Yeah, that's what i was doing. And at least i don't misuse you're and your :p


    I'm glad I'm not the only one that does that:D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by LacyMay2k


    :lol:

    You really shouldn't laugh or show any sign that you don't hate me at all you know, it only encourages me. :D

    Still, if a mindless yet mildly humorous play thing for you to laugh with one minute and viciously beat to death with a sharpened stick the next, then I'm your man.

    Or rather baby. I'm just too cute for words.

    No, really...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hehe actualy I'm not a baby really, I'm just a cute lil bunny wabbit!

    Or maybe I'm even a cute lil baby bunny wabbit, even better!

    Hehehehehehehehehehehehe :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Shukes
    Still, if a mindless yet mildly humurous play thing for you to laugh with one minute and viciously beat to death with a sharpened stick the next, then I'm you're man.

    Humourous. Your. :p

    Off to caress the edit button again Shukes?! :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hehe of course! I'm sure my subconscious is actually forcing me to make these simple spelling and grammatical errors simply to satisfy my own sexual cravings for softly stroking that hot, moist, lubricated "Edit" button. Mmmmm.

    God I'm so frisky I need some 'Ed now.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I mean Edit, not Ed! Edit!

    Wait a minute, isn't that worse? :confused::D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yes, definately :p head i can understand, edit, i can't quite see the attraction... But, each to their own. :D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hehe, you are sooooo obviously jealous of my sexual perversions surrounding that orgasmic "Edit" button!

    And I'm proud to say I now have a pet "Edit" button of my own. We are very happy together and often satisfy each other's "needs" as it were! Hehehe! :D

    We're just so happy together, and when it does it's special "trick" when it sorta reverses inwards on itself and changes a few of those cute seemingly innocent sexy letters around - so it seductively changes from saying "edit" to "tied"... oh God, did we put those ropes handcuffs to good use! Grrr! :naughty:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Shukes
    Hehe, you are sooooo obviously jealous of my sexual perversions surrounding that orgasmic "Edit" button!

    And I'm proud to say I now have a pet "Edit" button of my own. We are very happy together and often satisfy each other's "needs" as it were! Hehehe! :D

    Edit buttons have needs?!? :confused:

    Can you get me a pet tied button?! :D:naughty:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hehe, of course they have "needs" hun! What, you think just because they're not living creatures like you and (presumably) I, they're not entitled to sexual pleasure?!?!? I thought you were open minded towards this sort of thing, but tonight you've proven to me just what an ignorant and shallow person you really are. :mad:

    :D Hehe, I can certainly get you one those cute lil pet "Tied" buttons if you want one though! You wouldn't believe the devilishly dirty things those horny little buttons will get up too! Grrrrrr! :naughty:

    They come in various sizes too, hehe. Don't make the same mistake I did and go for a large one first time - infact the lil tiny ones are best, they can get into all those tiny places in you're body and start Editing all around the most intimate areas of your body! It's just indescribable as they seductively titillate you as they delete the most sensititve areas of your body before going in for the kill, grrrrrrr! :naughty:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ROFLMFAO!
    Originally posted by Shukes
    I thought you were open minded towards this sort of thing, but tonight you've proven to me just what an ignorant and shallow person you really are. :mad:

    :D Hehe, I can certainly get you one those cute lil pet "Tied" buttons if you want one though! You wouldn't believe the devilishly dirty things those horny little buttons will get up too! Grrrrrr! :naughty:

    I am open minded, and now you have pointed it out to me, i will definately bear it in mind :D

    Oh i do hope they do get up to devilishly dirty things... :naughty: I haven't seen my b/f for two weeks, and i'm not going to see him anytime soon... if i don't get SOMETHING i'm going to spontaneously combust with sexual frustration! And it doesn't count as cheating if it's with an inanimate object, does it?! If it does, i'm already in trouble :eek: ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hehe, of course it doesn't count as cheating if it's with an inanimate object hun - but I swear when you first feel the full passion and emotion of climaxing with an especially kinky "Edit" or "Tied" button, you'll swear it was totally real! It's that good! :naughty:

    I'm off too bed now anyway - I might have a bit of fun with my special set of "Edit" buttons usually reserved for only special ocassions! Hehe, God I'm lucky having so many sex obsessed "Edit" buttons - and God are they good! Hehehe! :naughty: :eek:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Good point tho... Is it cheating with an inanimate object (or hand?)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :eek: You've stolen Deeeb's avatar! He's gonna be pissed when he sees that...

    and no. It's not cheating when it's with an inanimate object or hand, cos if it were, foreplay using vibrators (or indeed any other sex aid) would be a threesome, and wanking someone off while he's fingering you would count as a foursome/orgy :D That'd be funny... hehehe
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Sa-ra-ra-ra


    Humerous.

    Humourous, even. Or humorous, if you're American.

    If you're gonna be pedantic, get it right. :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by travellingfreak
    Good point tho... Is it cheating with an inanimate object (or hand?)

    OI :mad: Give me my fish back please :(
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle


    Humourous, even. Or humorous, if you're American.

    If you're gonna be pedantic, get it right. :p

    Quiet you, i wasn't sure about it when i posted it. and he didn't pick up on it! *caresses her tied button* :naughty::D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm very worried about you all! :p
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