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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
now i kno this is gonna sound a bit sad but im goin out with my mates 4 her birthday 2 this nightclub near where we live, Majestik!ive never really been out clubbing b4!!
so i want 2 proove to everyone who thinks im a pathetic little girl that i can go out and get with as many sexy men as i want!! so any way what i really want to know is:
HOW CAN I GET WITH A BLOKE REALLY EASY??
do i just go over n grab his arse turn him round n snog him??! wot if i fink hes sexy and think it might go somewhere??
pls help me im really worried!!
also im worried bout not getting in!! iv got big boobs which might help if i flirt wit da bouncers!?!?!?!
so please advice ne 1!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!thnx <IMG alt="image" SRC="cool.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you do what you have said you will be classd a slapper and will be one of thr prime suspects for giving essex girls a bad name. DO you really want to seem easy? What makes a woman sexy is knowing that she doesn't need a man and she is happy as herself and has so much confidence that it blurts out come get me. Make them chase you and not chase them. It's fun...trust me.;-)

    Oh and as for getting in. Yeah smile confidentally and if I'm waiitng in line I used to just have chat ot them. not flirting, but like How much is it and stuff lik that and is it busy....blah.

    overall just have a laugh!

    -moogs

    [ 16-01-2002: Message edited by: Moogle ]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Can't help with the getting in issue. However, once you're in it's up to you how you get the guy. Yea, you could just walk over and grab some guys ass but at the same time that might freak him out. I'm personally a little too shy for that tactic and usually make the guys come to me.

    Of course to get the guys to come to you it requires a little effort on your part. In a dancing situation, I usually scan the room to find a guy I'm attracted to and then head in his direction but don't go right up to him to dance. Staying a little ways away make eye contact and smile (also important that no guy gets too close to you at this point). Just keep shooting him looks every once in a while and in a couple songs he'll probably come over to you.

    Introduce yourself if you want to know who he is and then just continue dancing, still looking up at him and then away after a couple seconds. It tends to be very flirty and if you're fairly close to him it probably won't be too long before he kisses you.

    That's probably a much more detailed description than I needed to give but the most important part of it all-
    1) Be confident in yourself
    2) Have fun.
    Both are very sexy qualities and it will attract people to you.
    Have fun!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Do I love Essex or what, Slappers everwhere you look, all over the place, wall to wall.
    may I suggest you go over to the politics board and read teenage pregnancys.

    Take care of yourself and be carefull.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by EssexBabe:
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    so i want 2 proove to everyone who thinks im a pathetic little girl that i can go out and get with as many sexy men as i want!!</STRONG>

    Are you sure you're doing this for the right reasons? Who cares what other people think - you don't need to throw yourself at anybody who'll have you just to prove a stupid point.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey the only advice I could give you is when you are walkin into pay in to the club act as if youve been there loads of times and just dont act nervous and you'll be fine as for doin that with guys dont bother!! lol u will have a bad name at that place and all the girls will most likely get u after it trust me Ive seen it before!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="cool.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ATTENTION, J

    IF YOU REALLY ARE FROM ESSEX AND ARE REALLY A DJ YOU SHOULD REALLY KNOW THE MAJESTIK!!!!!!

    I'M FROM MANCHESTER AND NEVER BEEN TO ESSEX BUT EVEN I'VE HEARD OF IT!!

    SO, STOP YOUR LIES!

    snoogens
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i live in essex and ive never heard of it either.

    and like karla said, u seem like ur doing everything for the wrong reasons. you should have to prove urself to people.

    i go clubbing all the time, and u dont have to pull to have a good time!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    to get a bloke wear the sexiest thing you can (without anything poping out) and make eye contact with a cute guy maybe give him a sexy wave from th other sude of the room and keep making eye contact until he comes over.
    that should work it always works for me.


    agoodchild@teentoday.every1.net http://mingo.moonfruit.com

    [ 17-01-2002: Message edited by: Karla ]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    how old are u? cos to me it sounds like ur doin it for all the wrong reasons!! u'll always find sleazy men down town but just makesure u no wen to say no and make urself sum boundaries! as for gettin in yeah if u flirt it will help bu dont embarrass urself!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Hippy Chick:
    <STRONG>how old are u? cos to me it sounds like ur doin it for all the wrong reasons!! u'll always find sleazy men down town but just makesure u no wen to say no and make urself sum boundaries! as for gettin in yeah if u flirt it will help bu dont embarrass urself!!!</STRONG>

    Use that advice because its the best advice you could get Essex babe! <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0"> thats good advice hippy chick!!

    [ 17-01-2002: Message edited by: madinthenut ]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why's it always the bloke that has to come over???!
    If you want the nice guys why not go and find them rather than waiting for cocky wiseguy, out to impress his mates, pissed guy to come over!
    They'll be the more timid ones who wont do that becasue they respect your space etc.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Johny5:
    <STRONG>ATTENTION, J

    IF YOU REALLY ARE FROM ESSEX AND ARE REALLY A DJ YOU SHOULD REALLY KNOW THE MAJESTIK!!!!!!

    I'M FROM MANCHESTER AND NEVER BEEN TO ESSEX BUT EVEN I'VE HEARD OF IT!!

    SO, STOP YOUR LIES!

    snoogens</STRONG>

    You really are a complete tosser arent you? Ive heard of Majestyk, but the famous one in Leeds (famous for Woodgate heheheh) not the one in Essex.

    Stop trolling and say something intelligent <IMG alt="image" SRC="mad.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol

    majestik is shite, but whatever floats ur boat

    i live in essex, it's posts like these that make you ashamed of it!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    rite 2 set fings straight! im 16! im from essex. i dont sleep around but i do like to get with as many sexy blokes as i can!! its what im interested in!! my life doesnt revolve round men, but they do make things a hell of alot better!! it aint all essex girls who are like this and yer ther r alot who r totally ashamed of ppl like me!! bt i really dont care bout ppl who abuse me!!
    i love making people see that i can pull who i want!! mayb i have stupid reasons bt i hav a hell of alot of fun!!
    yer its sometimes about makin ppl jealous and prooving to myself that am sexy because everyone always goes 4 my best mates!! i like to make myself feel better!! i just wanted 2 kno da best way 2 do it!!
    and by the way i did get in, bt we ended up at kings!!! which werent all da great bt i still pulled!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="cool.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by EssexBabe:
    <STRONG>yer its sometimes about makin ppl jealous and prooving to myself that am sexy because everyone always goes 4 my best mates!! i like to make myself feel better!!</STRONG>

    I know how that feels *sigh* anyway, im glad u had a good time.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hokay.
    I jumped in a little late on this one, but I think I should still give my two cents...

    1) So You're proving you're not a little girl by doing the most immature things possible...Getting pissed and pulling loads of blokes. Hmmm, seems slightly off, that.

    2) To get a bloke? Go to the edges of the club. There, you will find a few blokes sitting relaxing, ejoying their drinks. These men will either be rich arsehole "I work in London, So I'm better than you" types, or the "I'm out to have a laugh and see what happens, without getting stonkingly drunk" types, the nice guys, that every girl dreams about, but never goes for cos they're never her "type".

    This is the key when you go to smaller places, like Sam's or Zeus, or Chameleon.

    Another tip. never give up smoking. I want to kill someone, anyone, everyone, now.

    Cheery-bye! (Gaaaaaa!)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    if you want to get in a club don't draw attention to yourself!! keep your boobs covered on the way in - wear a jacket! Don't look sus. and convince yourself you're old enough. If you don't get in dont argue your point or slink off quietly - say fair enough, i should have remembered to bring my id. most bouncers will say, oh well go in just this once! <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I completely agree that having a guy fancy you and want to pull you in a club is very good for the ego, healthy even (as long as they're not a rapist!). still, sorry for pointing things out, but I think the reasons why so many people have called you a slapper etc on this thread are:

    - your name. why choose EssexBabe? all it does is give you a reputation as someone who has sex with anything in trousers, is incredibly thick and wears the tightest clothes and highest heels the shops have to offer. not that there's much wrong with Essex - I'm an Essex blonde! hehe - but it has a stigma in the UK and to be honest it's just inviting slander.

    - the title of this thread. I thought you were trying to pull someone off the boards!

    - it's "think" not "fink" and "that" not "dat". also what, with, and, know, to, for, prove . . . minor points but it doesn't project the best image of yourself. nor is it much faster on a computer where there's no need to save characters.

    anyway. just in case you were wondering lol <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0"> hope you had a good time at . . . wherever it was!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i type how i text!! wot can i say, it must an essex fing!!! im sure u still get da jist of wot im sayin tho, either dat or ur a true essex girl!!
    im perfectly capable of writing talking and being involved in an intelligent conversation, could i find someone to involve myself with, rather than talking to my self or someone with as much intelligence as you!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
    maybe im being a slapper by wanting to get with loads of blokes, and if that aint ur thang then i aint forcing u2 do it BUT im having a laff and dats da whole point of life!! live it 2 da max!! after all u only live once!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't judge people by where they come from? Essex girls are a stereotype, but only true Essex girls conform to an artificial stereotype.

    Your intelligence and conversational skills are irrelevant. It is whether you can make the effort to type something properly, or in text speak. I don't judge, but IMHO, it's an abominable thing to do. It gets you talking in a similar manner, and once you do that, no-one will take you seriously. You wouldn't write an application for a job like this would you? Yet you'll find it difficult to lose the text speak?

    I don't want to turn this in to a personal diatribe. I've read the post. I agree, life is how you live it. If you want to go to a club, and be pulled by a random because that makes you feel good about yourself, then that's not my problem, and good luck to you. I don't think that it's necessarily going to appeal to a lot of people. I've never set foot in a club in my life. I have no intention of doing so. But then, I guess, I've done things you haven't. Each to their own.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by EssexBabe:
    <STRONG>i type how i text!! wot can i say, it must an essex fing!!! im sure u still get da jist of wot im sayin tho, either dat or ur a true essex girl!!
    im perfectly capable of writing talking and being involved in an intelligent conversation, could i find someone to involve myself with, rather than talking to my self or someone with as much intelligence as you!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
    maybe im being a slapper by wanting to get with loads of blokes, and if that aint ur thang then i aint forcing u2 do it BUT im having a laff and dats da whole point of life!! live it 2 da max!! after all u only live once!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0"></STRONG>


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi I live in Essex (come from london lets make that clear) so I aint an Essex girl in so many words, I know lodes of girls who like to go to clubs and get with lodes of diff guys (or sleeping around in other words) they all have something in common, very low self asteem. You musnt think much of yourself if you need a guy to hit on you to make you feel good about urself. I aint got much of a self confidance but thank god I dont go sleepin around to make me feel better, but then again I know I have a bf who loves me, maybe you should go lookin for just the 1 guy or let him find you. <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">

    Hey just a little bit of advise plz dont bite my head off!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by EssexBabe:
    <STRONG>ur a true essex girl!!
    [/b]indeed I am. born in Essex, bred in Essex (minus a year in Aus), I'm even a blonde. though not from a bottle <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">


    maybe im being a slapper by wanting to get with loads of blokes, and if that aint ur thang then i aint forcing u2 do it BUT im having a laff and dats da whole point of life!! live it 2 da max!! after all u only live once!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0"></STRONG>

    it's fine wanting to "get with loads of blokes" as long as you don't get hurt in the process. no, it's not my thing, I've been with my bf for nearly a year now. and life is here for living, I agree with ya <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">

    [ 27-01-2002: Message edited by: stellar ]
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