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Prostitution

I know there have been quite a few threads on female prostisution but has anyone got any views on male prostitution? I know its not as common or "acceptable" as when females do it but just wondered what everyone thought about it.
Is it done for the same reasons as females or whatever?

Throw in stuff about your view on females too if ya want.

I aint sure how i feel about either to be honest.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Male prostitutes are not any 'worse' in my view. It's all actions between consenting adults, isn't it? :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I agree that it is all between consenting adults (in some cases) but there seems to be an attitude that for blokes to do it, its somehow worse. Just wondered if anyone had any views on why that might be :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by onenatcons
    It's all actions between consenting adults, isn't it? :)

    No.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    As long as no one is being forced into it what’s it matter!

    It good I guess, some women can’t shag good-looking bloke and male Escorts can be the ideal and discreet way of them doing so. Each to there own I say

    Although it’s a very different market from female prostitution
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle


    No.

    Yes it is. If you're talking about people forced into prostitution that's a separate issue. But if we're discussing prostitution hypothetically then it is all agreed.

    The causes and reasons for prostitution are a slightly different discussion.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by AGoldenBoy


    Yes it is. If you're talking about people forced into prostitution that's a separate issue. But if we're discussing prostitution hypothetically then it is all agreed.

    The causes and reasons for prostitution are a slightly different discussion.

    Ok, granted.

    Keeping it hypothetical, it's all good.

    Unfortunately, the real world isn't quite as nice. :(
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle


    No.

    Really?

    If most male escorts/rent boys are over the age of consent, aren't they consenting adults? :)

    It is true that some might be forced into the industry, but what about those who are not and enter it through their own volition (for whatever reason)? Are they just as bad?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by AGoldenBoy

    The causes and reasons for prostitution are a slightly different discussion.

    er no its not, although it depends on whether you feel that a 'normal' well adjusted non abused person would WILLINGLY enter into prostitution...a hobby, a part time job..I think not.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    In a hypothetical world prostitutes can choose at any time to stop prostituting. Thus, they are consenting.

    Of course the real world doesnt work like that, and most hookers are there because of drug addictions, child abuse and fear. So hookers very rarely are consenting adults, as they have a choice between being a prostitute and being wormfood.

    Maybe legalising prostitution would help this situation, as it would certainly make the prostitutes safer. As for sane people being hookers- lookhow many women become strippers and porn stars. Its no different, except that theres no camera. Hypo
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ...hypothetically that is,

    *kicks TheSite for not letting me finish my sentence*:banghead:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kermit


    Maybe legalising prostitution would help this situation, as it would certainly make the prostitutes safer.

    Holland!:p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Harmless


    Holland!:p

    How'd you know that? :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by LacyMay2k


    How'd you know that? :lol:

    I've been there a few times that's why!:p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Harmless


    I've been there a few times that's why!:p

    Aaah right, did you actually get to see any of the prostitutes then? :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by LacyMay2k


    Aaah right, did you actually get to see any of the prostitutes then? :)

    Yes, in the red light area.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Harmless


    Yes, in the red light area.

    Oooh what were you doing there then!? :confused::lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by LacyMay2k


    Oooh what were you doing there then!? :confused::lol:

    Looking at the sights!:p :angel:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Harmless


    Looking at the sights!:p :angel:

    Any good?! :confused::naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by LacyMay2k


    Any good?! :confused::naughty:

    Er, So So!;)

    Were :shocking: for an innocent 16 yr old lad to see!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Harmless


    Were :shocking: for an innocent 16 yr old lad to see!

    Ahhh well thats what you get for getting up too close innit :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my view is that male and female prostituition are both the same and both just ergh!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't see why its any different, but ummm well ummm wouldn't it be a bit hard (not pun intended) for the bloke to get going if he didn't want to kinda thing.......
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't think being a male prostitute is any worse or any better than being a female prostitute. It's sad that people so often do this sort of thing because of their backgrounds (e.g. drugs, abuse, etc) but at the end of the day, it's up to them ...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    For gigilos thats not always the case though. I remember meeting a fellow American guy down in Gudadalajara, Mexico who was living the good life as a free agent gigilo servicing the numerous wealthy 40-50 something yr old American widows who had retired down there.

    He wasn't some down and out type at all even if I wasnt particularly atracted to the thought of getting it on with the type of women he did. I suppose there's a guy out there to meet every age range's needs.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When your in Holland if you go anywhere near the red light district you can't help but get an eyefull as there standing in windows in full sight. It's not like you have to go looking for it.

    As for people choosing to be Prostitutes you have to remember that there are many that come and go as they please and earn large large sums of money.

    Escorts in London have no problem earning 4000 pounds in a week. Then may choose not to work for a week.

    It a very good life if you don't mind the work.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by barbary
    When your in Holland if you go anywhere near the red light district you can't help but get an eyefull as there standing in windows in full sight. It's not like you have to go looking for it.

    Thanks barbary for saying that!

    Now if you would just add I in no way or form gave you money/monies to say that, I’d be most grateful :D

    P.s the checks in the post!;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Harmless


    Thanks barbary for saying that!

    Now if you would just add I in no way or form gave you money/monies to say that, I’d be most grateful :D

    P.s the checks in the post!;)

    Reds your colour though innit... :p

    I'm sure you used to wear it all the time :chin:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by barbary

    It a very good life if you don't mind the work.

    For some maybe.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think male prostitutes have got it made.
    Most men have trouble getting any sex, let alone being paid for it lol.
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