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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
My G/F and I have been together for 6 months, and been having sex for about 3 months. She can climax if she is on top of me, but if I am on top over her she doesnt feel much, as I dont think im hitting the right place. Is it just a case of position? The sex is still good, but this is one position where she doesnt feel much. Does anyone know the answer? Thanks to anyone who replies <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    its probably because you r hitting her g spot when shes on top. do you not like doing it with her on top? im sure if you experiment then you'll find lots of positions pleasurable for you both <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
  • the_Paranoid_bunnythe_Paranoid_bunny Posts: 487 Listening Ear
    many girls prefer to go on top. not only is it easier to hit the right spots ( <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">) but she has more control over the speed and direction and things.

    is it any less pleasurable for you when she's on top?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    maybe if shes not feeling much in one position she could try to do some pelvic floor exercises (e.g. stoping flow when peeing) cos i tried that and the sex greatly improved! just try and mix and match and see what feels good for you both
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ok I think you should maybe ask her what way does she like it and then try that position and see what happens but if not then just try till you and her get one that both you like and not just that you like or she likes!!: <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It is very difficult for a girl to cum when you are in the missionary posistion, due to your penis not rubbing against her clit, due to the angle.
    A good and fun variation of the missionary is for her to raise her legs and put them on your shoulders. It will be a LOT deeper, and you will be able to finger her at the same time. Believe me, if you do this right she will cum like she has never cum before!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hiyas <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">

    i was just thinking that if u still want to have sex in the missionary position,then to try the CAT technique where u aline ur body slightlyhigher up herbody (towards her head),this allows a greater stimulation ofher clit. also a pillow or two underneath her bum can help so u can get in the right position to stimulate herg spot.

    hope that helps

    K <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks for that you lot, I shall try your suggestions <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Put a pillow under her waist wen doing missonary it will raise her up so u can get deeper penitration aswell. Either get her to put her legs round ur waist or get her to put her knees up
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