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events of today for me, a little strange.

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
me and my girlfriend are both doing our gcse mocks at the moment. and when we dont have exams, spend time alone at her place. my post down this borad stated that i was having trouble fingering her, and it seemed to hurt her, even tho she was as wet as a jacuzzi and i thought i was gentle. anyway, the time alone helped this, and she sed it was good, and i 'pushed her over the edge' this time.
anyway, today, another exam, another rush back to hers for a quick bit of fun. she gave me two blowjobs, my 1st, and i went down on her too. i was a bit worried about going down on her, but i was very pleasently suprised, she was very very sweet, and i very much enjoyed it. i wasnt sure how much she ddid tho, but on the phone just now she sed it was brilliant (although she couldnt understand how i could enjoy it). until she told me i didnt know she had come. there was a risk that her mum mite come home, and she couldnt completely relax, but wen girls come, surely they make a bit more noise than deep breathing? girls? am i right?
finally, the blowjobs. they also suprised me, i thought it would be really really full on. it was nice, but gentle, and as i had already come once when she jacked me, i didnt come when she gave me a blowjob. again is it ment to feel quite gentle? or is she not that brill at it? it was nice, but didnt make me shoot my load, which i usually do. opinions guys? what feels better, blowjob, or being jacked off? is it the idea of the blowjob thats so appealing rather than the actual act?
lol, again, lotsa questions, id apreciate some thoughts. thanks. <IMG alt="image" SRC="redface.gif" border="0">

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey there, listen it seems as if you and your partner have a good sex life am I right? May I ask what age are you? ok I think that if she went gentle on giving you a blow job thats a good thing lol not a bad thing because you dont want her to go rough do you because if she did then it would be sore and you would'nt be able to keep up the sexual relationship with a sore penis would you? No!! ok it is normal not to come after coming once before that it takes a while again before you can come again!! well hope I have helped!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im 16, shes 16 in 2 weeks. good sex life? well, we r both ready for it, and want to do it, and do lots of 'experimentation', but havnt gone the full way yet, simply because we havnt been in the right circumstances. (no condoms today for example, DOH!!!). i know its normal not to come soon the 2nd time, and takes a lot more stimulation normally for me. but when she sucked me off, it was nice, but didnt feel like i was gonna come. maybe itd be different if first time. i just wanned to know how good guys actually thought it was? amazing? thanks.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Bloody hell you have an active sex life :P Well done <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">

    Ill pass on your question about girls cumming; but with regards to blow jobs, I always prefer a hand job over being sucked off... I guess it all boils down to personal preference. Also, if your girlfriend is inexperienced at giving head, then perhaps she was doing it wrong?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by londonlad:
    <STRONG>im 16, shes 16 in 2 weeks. good sex life? well, we r both ready for it, and want to do it, and do lots of 'experimentation', but havnt gone the full way yet, simply because we havnt been in the right circumstances. (no condoms today for example, DOH!!!). i know its normal not to come soon the 2nd time, and takes a lot more stimulation normally for me. but when she sucked me off, it was nice, but didnt feel like i was gonna come. maybe itd be different if first time. i just wanned to know how good guys actually thought it was? amazing? thanks.</STRONG>

    Hey personally I hate getting blow jobs dunno why just think there crap!! maybe its with the girls that gave me them but I dont like them hope it helps! <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah but u gotta be sure she knows what its like for her to come. I mean obviously shes gonna be new to all this sort of stuff so she may not know exactly wether she come or not. especially with her been so young, shes more likely to come after experience.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    A lot of girls dont scream their heads off like in the porno flicks when they come, it quite often is little more than a deep sigh and panting. But if ur going down on her youll know when shes about to come cos her whole body will tense up, and youll get squished between two thighs <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
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