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alot of peasure from sex?no not me.

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
ok ok..I recently had sex for the first time and i was on top...it realy hurt when we got started then it was ok but i mean i dint exactly orgasism...i feel so stupid i had to like fake my orgasisms!i orgasism when i get fingured and wen i masturbate but not when i hav sex.HELP!how can i make sex alot of pleasure for myself?my partner gets pleasure but not me.we foreplayed b4 too.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sori i was ment to put pLeasure insted of peasure for my topic! <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you might just have been nervous. maybe the penitration was too deep for your 1st time?!

    [ 03-05-2002: Message edited by: inocent ]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Seem to be having a sense of deja vu here but will reply anyway. Lots of women do not orgasm through penetration. You're not abnormal or anything like that. Why don't you try and find a position so that your b/f can use his fingers to stimulate your clit and nipples and stuff at the same time? Alternatively you could just get him to finish you off (for want of a better phrase) afterwards.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Are you rushing through the whole process? Try to get your boyfriend to spend a bit more time on the foreplay,especially on the parts of your body that you find most stimulating (these aren't the same on every woman...experiment!). Also,whilst actually having sex,try manipulating those parts yourself,or have your boyfriend do it,whatever. You don't have to stick to doing things one after another military style. Try mixing several actions together and also,have you thought of introducing toys or erotic clothing?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Faking your orgasams is a dangerous business though, I'm sure your boyfriend would prefer it if you didn't, as then he'd know when what he was doing was good for you.
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