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girls, do most guys get hard when dancing with u

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
i get hard anytime girls dance with me n start grinding on me. it gets me so embarrassed cus i think it cretes the impression i cannot control myself. girls do most guys get hard whilst dancing and what do u think of a guy who is hard when u are dancing with him.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yes that pretty normalthats happened to me when I've been dancing with a guy <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> hope that answers you question! Why do you want to know?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What would I think? Just one of you bodily functions really, indicates you're slightly turned on (and therefore I'm possibly in with a chance) but wouldn't automatically take it to mean you're gagging for a shagging there and then...

    I think sometimes people get too worked up about the significance of erections, when often they're just automatic. I mean, my bloke tends to wake up in the morning with an errection, but I don't think it's 'cos of sexy little me every time (that's not to say I don't make use of it <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">)

    Edited to add, if they're "grinding" you, you going hard is probably the outcome they intended, so I wouldn't get too worried about what they think

    [ 03-05-2002: Message edited by: Meryn ]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    theres nuffin wrong wiv that! i wudnt ming i agree wiv sexy cj it gives u sumthin to dance for!! <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    o yeah its such a turn on!! I love it when that happens, lets you know your doing something right!!!! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Look dont worry about it Girls know da score if they are gonna rub up and down on a man's ting den its gonna get hard.
    At least we know we rocking our hips in da right way.
    I tell you what you dont do- is go & dance with a girl just becoz u got a hard on dats dutty.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    How bout a reciprocal question about the ladies. Its fairly common for us guys to get hard when we are dancing (aka grinding) with the honeyz, but how bout you ladies, do you often get wet while dancing with a guy?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> If the moods there its there, it doesnt matter what I'm doing, dancing, talking, chatting, rubbing against a male, I dont seem to have a problem getting wet, I only have to think about it sometimes <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hiya.... My boyfriend when i was dancing with him last week slow dancing...he got a hard on when we were dancing so we had to carry on dancing so no one would notice, lol. I think it is a turn on for girls though, well i like it.

    Nicola xxxxx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah it happens to me sometime, depends on how much drink i've had!

    But at least that a reason for getting a 'hard on' i've have time when for no reason it comes up, and i'm not 15 anymore so i'm a bit mythed as to why that still happens <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> (it happens more now then when i was 15) <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    anyway its nothing to worry about

    [ 03-05-2002: Message edited by: Harmless ]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no i dont get a hard on when im dancing with a woman. Just some advice dont think about sex when you are dancing with her! <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    aaaaargh, trouser tents! The plight of many a man trying to get close to that special someone. Had a particularily embarassing one while a guy was sitting on my lap, managed to blame it on my mobile tho <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    OMG, Roflmao!!! That pic is hilarious!!!

    Thanks for the laugh!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Booo you changed it! Now the others wont know what im on about! lol.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    back to the topic please

    ok in theory its kinda gross, and to begin with it freaked me out but now i get offended
    if it doesnt happen. just as long as he doesnt feel that it becomes an essential tool to the dancing process and it takes a life of its own if you know what i mean
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by 100% Chevalier:
    <STRONG>aaaaargh, trouser tents! The plight of many a man trying to get close to that special someone. Had a particularily embarassing one while a guy was sitting on my lap, managed to blame it on my mobile tho <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    I was lying on my side on my bed while some mates were visiting and one sat down on the edge and leaned back against me. Boing!!! I couldn't move 'cos I didn't want to draw attention to it but it started to poke him so much that he couldn't help but notice. He jusy looked at me and smiled slightly - then sat forward. What a pity 'cos I'd have done him anyday!!!! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yea guys, its a good thang that it happens...real dirty dancing is meant to be the closest to sex u can get with your clothes on!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Its pretty intense when ur at a club dancing with ur bloke as only u and he know whats happening (unless he is so big that he starts to push u away with it <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">) Its a real turn on and i love it!! My bloke gets even closer then and rubs it more........
    God thats it end of my post as am getting a bit hot around the collar!!!!
    <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> am going 4 much needed cold shower <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Teagan:
    <STRONG>

    He jusy looked at me and smiled slightly - then sat forward. What a pity 'cos I'd have done him anyday!!!! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    tisk tisk Teagan <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    I've actually had that before aswell, I think the guy was more flattered than repulsed, or at least I hope he was <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Plus In got a pull at the end of the (on my knee) one, so I werent bothered <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    k, this is slightly simliar to what someone else said, and some girls have added to it...

    is a boner flattering? and more important is it a turn on? dancing or otherwise?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *can't believe she's posting in the sex forum*

    Much as I hate to admit this, if a guy gets a boner then yes it is flattering. It means that a guy is turned on by you which I usually find is quite nice. It's only a little worrying when it's highly inappropriate like when it's your boss that has the boner or your lecturer. It's nice to know that you can turn people on just by being you, or by dancing, or whatever ... but sometimes .... ewwww. In general though it is a good thing!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Personaly, i like it. maybe thats just me being slutty, but if its the rite guy (u no who u r <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> ) then yeh!! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I agree with Loopi, unless it's someone really obnoxious or completely inappropriate it's definitely a turn-on!!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I absolutely love it when a guy gets a boner when dancing with me thing is though i often get one too and then it is obvious that i'm male to all as it shows through my skirt. <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When i was in a club the other day, i was grinding with this bloke..i finally got the hang of it and he went so hard!! i found it a real turn on...so dont worry bout it...that was my aim anyways and BOY did it work wen we got home .. tehehe..( he WAS my boyf but we just split up) <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> ANyone fancy a dance <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When i was in a club the other day, i was grinding with this bloke..i finally got the hang of it and he went so hard!! i found it a real turn on...so dont worry bout it...that was my aim anyways and BOY did it work wen we got home .. tehehe..( he WAS my boyf but we just split up) <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> ANyone fancy a dance <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    pmsl at charlotte! waheyyy
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    when i dance with a guy,if he is not hard,i'm very disapointed.especially if we are dancing close.i love the feeling a nice,hard cock pushing against the fabric of my dress in the pussy area.i also wear mini dresses or short mini skirts and tanktops,so if guy isn't hard.forget about him.i even had a guy cum dancing close to me.i felt his cock spasm and some of the cum leaked through his pants on to my dress..lol..by the way,that got me very hot and horny..lol and i finished him off outside the club against the back wall..wow! was that hot sex..lol
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it feels really nice when a guy gets an erection while dancing with you...and i laugh because the guy starts sweating because of it, but i find it cute and erotic.
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