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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I am doing an article and I would like to know what is the allure of bad boys?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Aint got a clue.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The way they live life on the edge is appealing, the way they never call you makes you want them more because you know you might not be able to have them. Badness in a man is seen as 'manly' Boys always play up. The independance they portray is sexy and the fact that could run off any moment gives you the incentive to keep their interest...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    God, I have had the biggest crush on this bad boy in work since February. It's such a pain!

    Honestly, this bloke has a black lowered corsa, with blacked out windows, and something that makes it really noisy too. :rolleyes:

    But there's something about him.... ;)

    I must be so stupid, but I really like him! We've slept together, but he has never wanted anymore commitment. I love his freedom, and uck, I dunno....

    It amazes me that he can get away with it with women. :confused:

    I know i'm being crap with him, but i'm not that emotionally involved so I don't mind so much then.


    I have him listen in my mobile as 'bad boy.' :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: bad boys
    Originally posted by bubblegum
    I am doing an article and I would like to know what is the allure of bad boys?

    Who are you doing this article for? (Being nosy now)

    Bad boys, I hate them, Look at the dick from " Eastenders " Phil. He’s got the face of a dog's arse :lol: yet lots of woman fancy him!

    Why!?
    :confused:

    Also do women not learn? No matter how many times they shag your best mate, or fuck you about you still take bad boys back. Woman learning curve is strange, as is their logic.

    I don't even care! I don’t want to know the answer to this anymore!, silly (Nice) girl can have their bad boys! Get burnt and heartbreak (you must secretly enjoy it or something!) I no longer care.

    :p :crazyeyes
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: bad boys
    Originally posted by Harmless


    I don't even care! I don’t want to know the answer to this anymore!, silly (Nice) girl can have their bad boys! Get burnt and heartbreak (you must secretly enjoy it or something!) I no longer care.

    :p :crazyeyes


    Miaaaaaowwwwwwww! :p Why do bad girls like nice lads then? :confused::D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: Re: bad boys
    Originally posted by LacyMay2k



    Miaaaaaowwwwwwww! :p Why do bad girls like nice lads then? :confused::D

    Because the bad girls think the nice boys can cleanse their vile and wicked ways, maybe even exercise the evil spirits out of their bodies with holy spunk.

    Thats my take on it anyway.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: Re: bad boys
    Originally posted by LacyMay2k



    Miaaaaaowwwwwwww! :p Why do bad girls like nice lads then? :confused::D

    Cos they know they can use them to get what they want!

    And "nice guys" are the only type of lads that will put up with their shit!

    and maybe nice guy's like being used?:confused:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You're a good boy aren't you cummy? :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: Re: Re: bad boys
    Originally posted by Harmless


    Cos they know they can use them to get what they want!

    And "nice guys" are the only type of lads that will put up with their shit!

    and maybe nice guy's like being used?:confused:

    I know a bad girl whose got a nice guy and she doesn't want any of that... :p:D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Baby
    You're a good boy aren't you cummy? :D

    hehehe...share the holy spunk, thats what I say! ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: bad boys
    Originally posted by LacyMay2k


    I know a bad girl whose got a nice guy and she doesn't want any of that... :p:D

    Well then she not really a bad girl or he's not a "nice guy":p

    So tell me then, what does she want with the nice guy?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: bad boys
    Originally posted by Harmless
    Also do women not learn? No matter how many times they shag your best mate, or fuck you about you still take bad boys back. Woman learning curve is strange, as is their logic.

    It hurts less if a bad boy acts like an asshole because you expect him to be (and know that he is) an asshole. If a nice guy acts like an asshole, not only has he let you down, but he has deceived you and made you doubt yourself and your ability to judge people.

    Did that make any sense, or is that just my own muddled thinking?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Because they love having a moan about how their bf has gone off with some other girl. Secretly, deep down, being able to moan is more important to them than anything else. Even more important than having a "nice" bf who won't mess them about.
    :mad:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ermmmm..... :confused: a bad boy is a naughty boy, hehe! :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: bad boys
    Originally posted by Harmless


    Well then she not really a bad girl or he's not a "nice guy":p

    So tell me then, what does she want with the nice guy?

    Everything :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: bad boys
    Originally posted by STUPIDINTERNET


    Everything :)


    *Tuts*, do I know you?:p :lol:

    and what do you mean by "Everthing"?:confused:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: bad boys
    Originally posted by Harmless



    *Tuts*, do I know you?:p :lol:

    and what do you mean by "Everthing"?:confused:

    Yes i believe you do...!

    An everything means everything! :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: Re: bad boys
    Originally posted by Scarlett


    It hurts less if a bad boy acts like an asshole because you expect him to be (and know that he is) an asshole. If a nice guy acts like an asshole, not only has he let you down, but he has deceived you and made you doubt yourself and your ability to judge people.

    Did that make any sense, or is that just my own muddled thinking?

    No that it is sooooo true...
    I have had this thing for bad boys since I can remember and I suppose it has sort of turned me into a "bad girl" as the way i act now i pretty much treat guys like shit.....
    There is this one guy called Gary who shitted on me soooo much that in order to stop myself going back to him, I stoped going to the same pubs and erased his number AND got a new number..I then tryed dating a nice guy who cheated on me all along ssssoooo On friday night I went to the pub and saw Gary there..I gave him my new number and saw him leave with another girl...He hasnt phoned which my mates are pleased about but inside i feel slightly gutted he hasnt called.......
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: Re: bad boys
    Originally posted by Scarlett


    It hurts less if a bad boy acts like an asshole because you expect him to be (and know that he is) an asshole. If a nice guy acts like an asshole, not only has he let you down, but he has deceived you and made you doubt yourself and your ability to judge people.

    Did that make any sense, or is that just my own muddled thinking?
    That's a damned good, and highly believable explanation. I think you've got something there!

    Mr_Wobble ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I could not agree more! I dated a "nice guy" for almost 3yrs who turned into the biggest asshole, after about a yr.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sorry harmless, I don't write for anything interesting just my student magazine. I must admit I am partial to bad boys to and I don't know why when I know I will get hurt. I think Scarlett may have the key though.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by bubblegum
    I think Scarlett may have the key though.

    LOL. Don't mind me, I just overanalyze absolutely everything. :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's true... the amount of betrayal you feel when you have a nice boy turn 'bad' on you is far greater than when a bad boy does what you've been expecting him to do all along.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Sa-ra-ra-ra
    It's true... the amount of betrayal you feel when you have a nice boy turn 'bad' on you is far greater than when a bad boy does what you've been expecting him to do all along.
    That's exactly what I was trying to say, but I rambled on for much longer than you. Thank you.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well if you girls are so scared of getting hurt in a relationship I suggest you don't have one. Ooops! Thats no good. You'd have nothing to gossip about.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeeeeesss, because that's why people get in relationships; for the gossip.

    Mmmmmhmmmm.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    their dangerous, daring, don't give a fuck and dead sexy
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Sir Cum
    Well if you girls are so scared of getting hurt in a relationship I suggest you don't have one.
    Sweetheart thats one of the reasons I remain eternally single...Oh yeah as well as the other stuff:naughty::naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by my_name
    their dangerous, daring, don't give a fuck and dead sexy
    Yes also true woohoo!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I dont like bad boys, i like someone to treat me right with respect.
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