If you need urgent support, call 999 or go to your nearest A&E. To contact our Crisis Messenger (open 24/7) text THEMIX to 85258.
Read the community guidelines before posting ✨
what to expect???
Former Member
Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
ok, i was just wondering what to expect for my first time, i want it to be good, but i dont expect it will be, it will proberbly go badley, but i've read some wierd things about bleeding so much it goes on the sheets, and tensing up so he wont be able to do it. so, what should i expect?
0
This discussion has been closed.
Comments
So, tips would be to have plenty of foreplay and just relax else you will be all tensed up and it wont work. My first time after that was fine, there was no blood and no pain whatsoever and there was alot of foreplay involved
Foreplay is the key to relaxing u though.
:eek: :eek:
Oh I enjoyed it. It was only at first it hurt. When u get going it starts to feel good! Also if u pick the right person to do it with u enjoy it because it's special.
i enjoyed it it was sweet romanitc slow...beautiful it was evereything i wished it to be,he took his time we worked together there was a tiny bit of pain but thats about it....:)
hope it all goes wellxx
Yes
You need to be fully relaxed otherwise it isn't going to happen at all. Also if you are feeling a little nervous lubricant might be a good idea and it may help you boyfriend 'go in better'.
Plenty of forelay etc and you should be alright.
Don't want to put you off if the guy your thinking of doing it with is a virgin too but i accidently stuck it up the wrong hole as well . . . doh! Whats worse is that the girl goes to my local and knows a few of my friends, everytime i see her i start blushing and lose the power of speach, arghh!!!
mind you i was blind drunk, no wonder my aim was a little off
omg, where did u put it 4 gods sake?????????
I'm guessing up her arse........? Or ear would be another i gues....
Where do you think? How many holes do you have down there?!
hey c'mon, it didn't take me to long to work out i got the wrong hole, i was almost positive when she started going cross eyed!
:eek:
Do not believe all you hear about your first time. I doubt very much you will bleed all over the sheets . Just relax you will be fine.
you'll enjoy it, have fun!:)
im a virgin so when i wanna have sex first time im gonna be sure and make it romantic.
anyway, do u people think that even tho we love each other very much, it could be bad sex.
i mean, surely if we are being intimate it will make the sex better anyway.
luv lou
i ask this cos im unsure whever my first time will almost certainly be good, or has the chance of being awful
luv lou
p.s. also this girl talked about faking an orgasm. just out of curiosity,any1 know how do u fake an orgasm
To the person who asked the original question - this has been discussed several times recently. Try reading the FAQ and doing a search.