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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
All of my ex's in the past few years have been really into phone sex, it can be so sexy listening to her talking filth about what we'd be up to together... I think because I've an Irish accent helps, they have all been English and well into it! Does anyone else share this fave past-time?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i like it when someone says stuff to me, but i feel awkward saying stuff back, i get stuck for ideas, and i just feel like an idiot basicly, so we never get very far, any tips?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Nah, doesnt appeal to me at all, Im too shy for that kinda thing :o :rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I dunno about tips, I find it comes very easily, excuse the pun. Basically dont get too stuck in too quickly to the explicit stuff, and the tone of ur voice is as important as what you are saying. Believe me it is well worth it, I've had some of the best orgasms ever while my gf was telling me filthy stuff, and shes not normally the kind to get into it!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I can't do it! I am just too embarrassed and stuff. :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    na, i dont think its my kinda thing to do.

    its the same wiv cyber sex, how the hell can that turn someone on? i just dont get it
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah I agree.

    I prefer the real deal ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i like it when someone says stuff to me, but i feel awkward saying stuff back, i get stuck for ideas, and i just feel like an idiot basicly, so we never get very far, any tips?
    I can't do it! I am just too embarrassed and stuff

    i so agree with you guys. id love to be able to talk like that, but just feel :rolleyes: !! ive tryed to sorta talk like that b4 on msn n that but it doesnt always turn out how u want it to.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i feel like i should know what to say, but when i type it/say it it sounds awfull, and i cant imagine it turning anyone on!!! lmao
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I agree, cyber is pathetic and no good at all, but phone with someone who knows what to say and how to say it is amazing. Of course it's not as good as the real thing, but when you can't have it for whatever reason, it's a more than acceptable alternative.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by kinkylicious
    its the same wiv cyber sex, how the hell can that turn someone on? i just dont get it
    I think it can turn on. Reading the thoughts of another one can be really inspiring (when you chat with the right person) :D
    I like reading a good sex story more than watching any porn stuff.

    But back to the topic - phone sex - I had it once with my former fuck buddy - he didn't want to wait till I'm in his flat so we did it that way but we didn't talk much - he just liked to hear me moaning (and I liked to hear him too :D )
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeh, i see your point, i do read the stories in more and cosmo, but when its actually me, it isnt the same
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's so sexy to lie in dark, listening to your partner telling you dirty things as you tell them what you wanna do to them! I love telling girls stuff like that, they seem to like it too hehe
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by IrishJamie
    I agree, cyber is pathetic and no good at all, but phone with someone who knows what to say and how to say it is amazing. Of course it's not as good as the real thing, but when you can't have it for whatever reason, it's a more than acceptable alternative.

    I agree with that also. I guess it makes for a good substitute. it's just getting it on,on the phone I find hard to do!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ok, just curious, are you suposed to masterbate while you talk??
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah,masturbating as you talk is good, usually when I've done it we've talked about a mixture of what we were doing at that very minute, and what we'd like to do to each other.....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    imagine if someone flimed you doing it!!!
    lmao
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by kinkylicious
    ok, just curious, are you suposed to masterbate while you talk??

    Yes,thats the whole idea anyway. The guy wants to hear you please yourself. and to explain in full detail how you are pleasing yourself.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    People do that too actually. Well, in a sense anyways, when using webcams. Gives the added visual element to make it one step closer to being there.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ok, looks like i dont know to much bout phone sex!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    this topics bin dun loads but ill say it agen
    i lurveeeeeeee it!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    rockerchick you sound like my kinda girl!!!! we should get it on hehe
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    me and this guy i know always talk dirty on msn and i really enjoy it but we've never been brave enough to try it over the phone. in what ways is it better than cyber? thanks. oh and yeah don't you ever get embarassed?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you read back, youll see that the main reason its better than online cyber is that you get to hear the other person getting off.

    Never been embarrassed myself. ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This girl i knew wanted to do it but i was crap. I just don't enjoy it. I kept taking the piss out of that scene in american pie 2

    "tell me how big it is baby"

    and we both kept cracking up. It just makes me laugh and i always make a joke out of it. I guess i just get embaressed so just fall back on jokes.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Right now id be happy just to be having phone sex! :eek: :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah I think phone sex is cool but only if your comfortable with the person. Its no good picking someone up say in here and doing it like that because it would be uncomfortable, i'm speaking from experience. Made me feel bit silly as well. If its your girlfriend then its usually great coz well everything your saying you've probably already done!

    Cyber can be just as good because people usually can pretend to be something they wish they were and say things that they could never say to someone face to face or on the phone.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have only done it a couple of times myself. It starts off being a bit embarrassing but if you are doing it with someone you know well and trust it can be cool.
    Its best If you are in bed and its quiet in the house, just close your eyes listen and use your imagination! ;)
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