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should i or not?
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Right, hi everyone, i did have a look at the F.A., but culdnt find anythign to help me apart form facts, i would like a personal opinion from someone.
Ok here's my problem or decision that i have to make. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months and we are really close. He treats me well and respects my feelings. As we are so close we have shared alot with eachother, we are v. intimate and i know i love him and he loves me. I am 15 (only 6 months unitl im legal) and this is my first proper relationship, but it feels so right. I know he wants to have sex and i do too, but im too scared because of the risks involved, its all ok, going to the doctors and gettin the pill and using a condom but i can't go to the doctors with out mum finding out and if i do go and get the pill she is likely to find them. Its really hard, and although i have explained this to my boyfriend, i feel liek im letting him down, there is no pressure on me at all and he is quite happy to wait, but im not sure i am. I really want to share this with ym boyfriend but dont know what to do, can anyone help me, maybe someone who has been inthe same situation or anyone who has also had these doubts. Thanks
Ok here's my problem or decision that i have to make. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months and we are really close. He treats me well and respects my feelings. As we are so close we have shared alot with eachother, we are v. intimate and i know i love him and he loves me. I am 15 (only 6 months unitl im legal) and this is my first proper relationship, but it feels so right. I know he wants to have sex and i do too, but im too scared because of the risks involved, its all ok, going to the doctors and gettin the pill and using a condom but i can't go to the doctors with out mum finding out and if i do go and get the pill she is likely to find them. Its really hard, and although i have explained this to my boyfriend, i feel liek im letting him down, there is no pressure on me at all and he is quite happy to wait, but im not sure i am. I really want to share this with ym boyfriend but dont know what to do, can anyone help me, maybe someone who has been inthe same situation or anyone who has also had these doubts. Thanks
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And may I congratulate you on your fantastic attitude? I don't mean to be patronising but we don't get many newbies like you round here
Good Luck with whatever you decide to do