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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hey everyone,
I'm going round to my boyf's house this afternoon, and the other day we were talking about giving each other oral, and i said that i would quite like to give him a blow job. well today's the day, and i was just wondering:
Where should i be in relation to him? i mean, should he be sitting down, lying down, whatever?
and as well I want to do this partly cos i think it'd be nice, but as well cos i want to give him pleasure, do most boys enjoy their first blow job?
Oh and as we're both virgins we won't have any stds, so we don't need a condom right?

Thanks,
Cara

PS Please reply even if i will already have been to my boyf's house by then, cos then i'll have more info for next time!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Firstly,there is no proper position-as long as you are both comfortable thats great.My boyfriend usually lies on his bed and I do the business.Or it would be the 69.Whether they enjoy it the first time depends on the 'blower'.If s/he doesnt hurt him then things are great.The guys are easy to please so dont worry about not satisfying him.But if it is the case tell him to tell you and talk on how to improve things.
    Go about it passionately.Pace yourself.At first go fast.Tease him a bit in between and then go fast but not rough.
    Anyway,good luck and practice makes it better and better.Youse will be fine.Go with the flow.You cant plan on what your every movement you make.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    like CHEEKy said, just relax and it should be fine. Lads are very easily pleased when it comes to blow jobs, so i wouldn't worry about it too much!

    Although saying that, my boyfriend didnt orgasm the first coupla times i did it to him, but said he still enjoyed it.

    My b/f usually lies on the bed and i sit in between his legs, but you can also get him to sit on the edge of a bed/chair, and you sit on the floor. 69er position is good, but you have to support yourself so you cant move too easily and it can make your arms ache!

    Dont know if anyone else had this experience, but the first few times i blew my b/f, it made my throat really sore, but its fine now, so mayb its just getting used to it? Any1 else had that experience?

    Well neway, goin off the point a little there, but relax and enjoy yourself, and come back and let us know if you need any more help xx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When i give head, i like the guy to sit on the egde of a seat or bed and i kneel between his legs.

    Good tip men like it when you use your tongue a lot!! use your hands aswell and kiss the shaft.

    As i said this is how my men liked it.
    Good luck giving head, and don't feel pressured into swallowing if you don't want to (it doesn't taste that nice)

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Also grab his cock with your hand and gently but firmly twist it slightly to and fro as you go up and down. And the mosy sensitive area is around the rim.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    don't mean to intrude ladies, but personally, i like it when there are no hands involved.

    just my humble opinion.

    good luck cara.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm happy to intrude...

    Try sucking an ice cube before hand (or rinse with listerine). I know this sounds strange but had done to me and.....holy shit!

    P.S. The ice cube thing works for women too....
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by Salti:
    Although saying that, my boyfriend didnt orgasm the first coupla times i did it to him, but said he still enjoyed it.

    yeah i know what you mean. my first bf didnt come at all when i did it to him, but said he enjoyed it. so dont feel too bad if you dont get them to orgasm. (i know you will, but DONT! lol... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">)

    salti, a sore throat after giving a blow job, especially after swallowing, can be a symptom of gonhorroea (god i bet thats spelt wrongly.).... i mean, its probably nothing to worry about, especially as its stopped now. its probably just the taste in your throat, i know what you mean.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Calvin:
    don't mean to intrude ladies, but personally, i like it when there are no hands involved.

    just my humble opinion.

    good luck cara.


    its kinda hard without hands to support though.we dont want to hurt you
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by CHEEKy:

    its kinda hard without hands to support though.we dont want to hurt you

    lol. thanks cheeky for thinking about us <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    but there are ways to make it work where no one gets hurt <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Cara:


    Oh and as we're both virgins we won't have any stds, so we don't need a condom right?


    im not sure about this part. does neone else know cause id like to know myself. do u only need to use condoms if one of u has an sti or is it like sex and is *supposed* to be used all the time?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    condoms are supposed to be used all the time to protect from pregnancy and stds as well as most importantly, the aids virus.

    But, if you have been with your partner long, you trust them and you enjoy sex more, then you can do away with the condom just as long as you are on the pill or something <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Oh, BTW, there is a special condom thing for girls to use when giving a man a blowjob, canny remember the name though <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;


    Man from Kent - i know what you mean with the ice-cube thing - JESUS!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have always gave a suck without using a condom.I dont think I could do it.Its never harmed me.I cant see it being effective if he had a condom on-both for me and him.
    Anyone who does use a condom can you tell me what its like.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by CHEEKy:
    Its never harmed me.


    HIV doesn't show symptoms immediately. So, how certain are you.

    Agreed it is unlikey but don't be so blase. Do you think that ANYONE infected thought they would catch it?

    Did you know that last year was the first time that the number of hetrosexuals being diagnosed with HIV exceed the number of homosexuals?

    "So raise your fists and march around
    Don't dare take what you need
    I'll jail and bury those committed
    And smother the rest in greed"
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    for some reason the only times my bf's come when i've given him a blowjob have been when he was standing up and i was kneeling on the floor... when he's lying down he doesn't come...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks for the replies everyone, I still haven't done it, it just didn't happen. We just kinda, were naked on his bed, and just kissed, and 'finger fucked'! So yeah, i'll remember all advice for next time...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by amadee:
    for some reason the only times my bf's come when i've given him a blowjob have been when he was standing up and i was kneeling on the floor... when he's lying down he doesn't come...

    blame gravity

    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    damn gravity! I knew it was something!

    ... actually, i think it's probably the power trip of having someone kneeling at your feet and 'worshipping your member'...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Cara:
    Thanks for the replies everyone, I still haven't done it, it just didn't happen. We just kinda, were naked on his bed, and just kissed, and 'finger fucked'! So yeah, i'll remember all advice for next time...

    Is that my finger fuck, lol!



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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Man Of Kent:

    HIV doesn't show symptoms immediately. So, how certain are you.

    Agreed it is unlikey but don't be so blase. Do you think that ANYONE infected thought they would catch it?

    Did you know that last year was the first time that the number of hetrosexuals being diagnosed with HIV exceed the number of homosexuals?


    if the guy who's dick u sucked....had HIV and you had a cut on ur mouth then u could get it other than that if you just sucked it and you didn't you can't get it but with warts and herpes and stuff well its really easy to get that
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