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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Anyone else had a one night stand with one of your best-other-sex-friends??

How did you cope the next day??

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    the next day? fine.

    later on? appalingly.

    If there's anything more important than my ego around here, i want it caught and shot now
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    One of my same sex closest friends, we were both pissed, and it was a really good idea at the time - yeah right - if I haddn't of been pissed it wouldnt of happened, I'd of thought about the concequences, and so would he, oh and the best part, he was going out with one of my best female friends, i'd never of done anything he hurt her, but you don't think of things like that when your pissed out of your head.

    He told her. The weekend after we were at a party, she stormed over to me, gave me a huge hug, and pissed herself, she thought it was funny.

    My mate and I didn't talk for weeks, and only now are we starting to be like we were. This was 2 years ago.

    bit shitty really - i almost lost a mate.


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hello this is my first post, I take it you are both bi-sexual then as this was a same sex one night stand..Even though you were pissed did you both enjoy it ??
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The worst mistake anyone can ever make is getting jiggy with a friend of the opposite sex.

    It's also one of the easiest...!!!
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    the next day? fine.

    later on? appalingly.


    lol.... yeah, what he said, as much as it pains me to agree with him.

    personally i dont think i reacted hardly at all compared to the guy...

    but thats definitely the last one night stand I have.

    Out of my mind. Back in five minutes.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by lovedup:
    The worst mistake anyone can ever make is getting jiggy with a friend of the opposite sex.

    It's also one of the easiest...!!!

    completely know what you mean...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by lovedup:
    The worst mistake anyone can ever make is getting jiggy with a friend of the opposite sex.

    It's also one of the easiest...!!!

    I think that it doesn't exist 'pure friendship' between 2 persons of opposite sex

    Coz it's got to be some attraction, even if it never show up. But somwhere deep in everybody's mind the possibility of 'more than friendship' still exist.

    There's, in my opinion, only one exception:
    They allready were together, so, in this case it's possible to exist just friendship



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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah I did, she turned out to be the best girlfriend I ever had. Friendship is the BEST if not the ONLY way to start out anything more physical. SO I can't understand how people say its a bad idea. What do these people meet people deliberatly with the intention of having a physical relationship but avoiding friendship?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i dont think i cud have a one nite stand as i love my boyf so much and we aint done it yet i just dont feel i cud do it with someone i dont love.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Fat man:
    Hello this is my first post, I take it you are both bi-sexual then as this was a same sex one night stand..Even though you were pissed did you both enjoy it ??

    Sorry bout the delay to the answer.


    HE still maintains he is str8, but im pretty sure that he is bi(im im a fairly good judge of that one, he was enjoying it when we were doing it.) - its his choice.


    Oh and yes I DID enjoy it.


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've done various things with other sex mates... i slept with one of them, did a runner the next morning and we haven't talked about it since but we're still good mates.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yip..the sleeping with opposite sex friend thing is definately the easiest mistake 2 make! A couple of times on nites out Ive ended up getting off with with one of my male mates. Ive never intended it 2 happen but a few drinks later the flirting starts and one thing leads 2 another..
    In my experience its been mostly OK cos we can get along OK and laugh about it 2gether afterwards..
    but the guy is also one of my best mates big bro and he doesnt like it. Every time Ive got off with his brother he doesnt talk 2 me 4 weeks!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by funlovnchic:
    Yip..the sleeping with opposite sex friend thing is definately the easiest mistake 2 make! A couple of times on nites out Ive ended up getting off with with one of my male mates. Ive never intended it 2 happen but a few drinks later the flirting starts and one thing leads 2 another..
    In my experience its been mostly OK cos we can get along OK and laugh about it 2gether afterwards..
    but the guy is also one of my best mates big bro and he doesnt like it. Every time Ive got off with his brother he doesnt talk 2 me 4 weeks!


    *laffs at funluvn and Mr Mahogany getting jiggy in her spare room*

    It's just 'cos you're a pair of tarts babe!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Moi..a tart! NOOO!
    I'm just a drunken hussy!!

    It would NEVER EVER happen if I was sober!!

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