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what's wrong with me?!?!?!?!?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
okay..how come..i'll really really like some1..and as soon as they like me..i stop...so i can never have a steady b/f cz i never like the guy long enough....and if they stop liking me..i start liking them again....GRRR!!

~~*~~Christine~~*~~
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ok, lets go throught his again...

    ...you get bored with the guy they get unbored with you and when they get bored you get unbored...

    WHY!? I think you have some "issues" to face.

    : Ross @ Ross Project :
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    theres nothing wrong with you.

    unless you really want to settle down, why does it matter?

    pyrex
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i can't help you with this with alot of other girls, which really upsets me cus i really like em, so i don't ask them out straight away, just act as really really good freinds (maybe do sexual things but thats up to you)

    Just
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    BTW, when i said "issues" that was what i meant pyrex, just incase someone wants to have a dig @ me.

    Maybe you don't wanna settle down.

    : Ross @ Ross Project :
    : www.rossproject.co.uk :

    : a weblog :
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    why not say what you mean!

    pyrex

    ps why is this not in the relationships forum?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    exactly what i was thinking .... i'm off there cos i have some relationship trauma <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    : Ross @ Ross Project :
    : www.rossproject.co.uk :

    : a weblog :
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Christine Sweetie, welcome to the world...We all do it? then eventually we dislike like or like them again.......
    Can't explain why though!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey chris. i totally know what you r sayin. im the same alot of the time. this is what its like with me anyway and a mate of mine too. wen u fancy sumone and they dont know its like u want sumthing that u cant have or dont have already. but then wen the person shows an interest in u, u go cold. i think its kinda a situation where u r scared of commitment or sumthing. then wen they stop showin an interest u go back to the way u were b4 they knew u liked them. my mate cant trust fellas and thats y shes like that. thats because of her da and stuff tho. hope this helps u even a little bit!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    its as if you enjoy chase but dont like the pray when you have caught it.

    pyrex
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah..but i doo really wanna settle down..like...i get alotta play..but w/ no emotions attached..and i dun like tht nemore....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hello christine.

    i think you're more interested in the chase than the actually relationship. it's fun to get someone who is not interested in you suddenly interested. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    the only problem is that one day, you might find that u acutally fancy one of these guys and they ur going to have to learn how to actually deal with that. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    good luck christine.
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    i know what you mean i think, i used to be like that. id fancy people obsessively for a while, but not tell ANYONE other than net people or my diary (ive had the net a coupla years btw <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; )... but i would never have the courage to even tell my friends, let alone them, so nothing happened, and i was alright. but its when guys let on they fancied me when the trouble started, i mean i had no idea what to do or how to react, especially if i liked them a bit too. i just said no all the time when i got asked out (not on dates, i mean to be bf/gf type thing). i was just too scared to, and this kept happening. it was only when i got to know someone properly on the internet that i wanted to actually have something happen, we were best friends and let things happen slowly when we met without rushing into anything, so it wasnt too scary. i think, from experience, that its a good idea to build a relationship up from something that's already a good friendship <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; like calvin says, you just have to learn to deal with it in some way, and hopefully then you'll be able to have a serious relationship <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    its just one of those things!

    its a bit of excitment flirting tryin 2 get them 2 like u
    but after its just natrual playin hard 2 get! most peeps do it, one day you might be on the other side of it and start 2 like some 1 who likes u and it may lead 2 a relationship but 4 now go wiv da flow
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    girl from mars..it's not that i dunno what to do...and schtuff..i mean i tell peeps that i like them and stuff...but then when they like me back..i just stop...it..kinda..sux....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    its a classic ccase of what you think you can't have, you want. When you find out theat you can have them, you don't want them.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    THANK GOD!! i thought i wa the only 1 who did that!! it doesnt matter how much you like someone, and you can be totally confidnet around them, its just that you go off them as soon as you get what you want! Its sooo annoying and i did it for years!!

    I still dont know why the relationship ive got now is different, i guess that when you like someone enough you wont get bored anymore, and until then i guess you should just have flings and enjoy it!! xx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    settle down?!?! its not as if you need to get married and have a family. you are young, enjoy it while you can.

    pyrex
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You don't suppose that it might have something to do with you other post, do you?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you saying her mum knows who she is on this site? you never know she might have even replied on this thread!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif"&gt;

    pyrex
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    so..like..EVRY1 does this..right? okay..god..cz my guy friends call me retarded...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *bites tongue very, very hard*

    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by guRLiE1oo4:
    so..like..EVRY1 does this..right? okay..god..cz my guy friends call me retarded...

    Me too... am i supposed to take it offensively??? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
    I put up with the retarded comments along with the you were adopted ones.....It's just fellas...

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ...and the answer to you question Yes..we all do !

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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    no we dont.

    I love deadlines. I love the whooshing noise they make as they go by.
    ~ the late, great Douglas Adams
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    this has NOTHING to do w/ my other posts..cz...i stop liking the guys..not..they don't stop lyking me...it's weird..
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lets just leave it at sum of us do and sum of us dont shall we!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lets just leave it at sum of us do and sum of us dont shall we!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    okay...but..what do ya'll think i should do ..ya know.. to try to stop it so i can finally go steady with a guy?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    realise that there's more to life than pulling. pull guys who aren't as shallow as you. stop leaving guys hanging in public.
    u know, fairly simple things.

    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    first of all..i'm not shallow.... and i'm trying to make it so I don't stop lyking them....not vice versa...
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