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is sex better wiv or wiv out a condom?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
4 me sex is better wiv out a condom
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My partner and I use condoms and we haven't used them in the past, and between us we have found no real difference. For me, it's 'better' to use them in the sense that there is the added reassurance on top of my pills.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: is sex better wiv or wiv out a condom?
    Originally posted by crazybeck
    4 me sex is better wiv out a condom

    I'd use a condom if I were you, for the good of society.

    Without it, you might procreate.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Without.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    mayb put if both of us prefer sex wiv out a condom then mayb its our own choice.I know im protected from pregnancy coz im on the pill n he is clean n so am i.Bsides if i did get pregnant we wud both b prepared 4 it.Each to there own i say.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by crazybeck
    mayb put if both of us prefer sex wiv out a condom then mayb its our own choice.I know im protected from pregnancy coz im on the pill n he is clean n so am i.Bsides if i did get pregnant we wud both b prepared 4 it.Each to there own i say.

    first, the pill doesn't work 100% (not like you havn't heard that before

    second, dirty people have kids too, where did you get the idea that just because you and him are clean means you wont have little illerate kids walking around??

    and third, being prepared must not include education in any form??
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by my_name
    first, the pill doesn't work 100% (not like you havn't heard that before.

    :rolleyes: The pill is still very effective. I just use the pill and don't see a problem with this. But I do tend to use condoms with new partners who's sexual history I don't know or whatever.
    And by the way, I'm not saying go out and have sex without condoms (just pointing that out in case someone decides to rip me to shreads and say I'm setting a bad example or something :rolleyes: ).
    Originally posted by my_name
    second, dirty people have kids too, where did you get the idea that just because you and him are clean means you wont have little illerate kids walking around??

    Ahem, I'm not sure if you meant to be funny but I think it's obvious that was in reference to STI's and the like.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm hoping it better without condoms, Only done it the once with out condom but I was so pissed that night I couldn't remember if it were better then wearing a condom

    Ohh the shame:o :o:o
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Daisychainthing


    Ahem, I'm not sure if you meant to be funny but I think it's obvious that was in reference to STI's and the like.

    i said that because she said that she COULDN'T GET PREGNANT because her and her boyfriend were clean... you try and figure that one out
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Harmless
    I'm hoping it better without condoms

    It is ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by LacyMay2k


    It is ;)

    I'll have to take your word for it then:p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by my_name


    i said that because she said that she COULDN'T GET PREGNANT because her and her boyfriend were clean... you try and figure that one out

    Actually if you read it again you would see that she is saying she can't get pregnant as she is on the pill and that the clean reference is in case people start complaining at her that she can still get a disease even though she's on the pill.

    We just have different interpretations.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by LacyMay2k


    It is ;)

    I agree. :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I fid you enjoy it more when youre not worried so with!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    deff with out :D it feels so much better n closer with out, i can realy tell the difference now if we ever do use one :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Without 100% better. But i am married, sterilised so dont need to worry about anything :D
    Id never have sex without a condom if I were single.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i usually perfer it without a condom, but recently my boyfriend tried one of those trojan 'ribbed' condoms, and that was really amazing. it was acutally more pleasurable and exciting.
    has anybody else tried those?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by crazybeck
    im on the pill n he is clean n so am i..
    :eek: :eek: I thought you were a bloke!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    quote "i thought u was a bloke"
    Bumblebee wot on earth made u think i was a bloke
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by crazybeck
    quote "i thought u was a bloke"
    Bumblebee wot on earth made u think i was a bloke

    Dunno, iliteracy, casual attitude to sex, posting the same topic twice, yadda yadda yadda.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I thought my_name was a bloke...people can you just give us one sign! :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i'm sorry but i just have to say this...
    when you quote somebody, it HAS to be exatly acurate (i.e. i thought you were a bloke, i thought you was a bloke)

    and another thing, i have a helluva time understanding what you say, with words like wiv wot fellaz and so forth, where are you from?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by BumbleBee


    Dunno, iliteracy, casual attitude to sex, posting the same topic twice, yadda yadda yadda.

    Just general incompetence really! :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    bumblebee i neva meant to post the same topic twice i got dis connected from the net wen i 1st did it.I dont ave a casual attitude to sex 4 ur information im in a very happy relationship n i dont got round sleepin wiv ne tom,dick or harry
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my name i am from doncaster ok
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by LacyMay2k
    I thought my_name was a bloke...people can you just give us one sign! :p
    <
    hows that, explain anything :)

    AHHHHH i can't be a guy, no no no, how did i get the jest of being a guy???


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by LacyMay2k


    Just general incompetence really! :D

    Exactly, things I would not expect from a respectable female like the posters at TheSite. Really crazybeck, take your crazy antics somewhere else, lol. :p;):)
    i dont got round sleepin wiv ne tom,dick or harry

    LMAO.

    Please can you type your words out in full?

    ave, 4 and ur
    become
    have, for and your (or sometimes you're)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my_name, you're a 'gilr' eh?! ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    oh crap *shakes head*
    i can mess up on almost anything, huh
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    me and my boyfreind have used condoms thoughout our relationship, it wud b good to do it wiv out 1 once in a while but id rather b safe than sorry!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Never tried it with out one...........
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