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Correctly stating that you're unusual isn't an insult.
I haven't abused anyone. There are no insults from me here; there are many insults directed at me though.
Using my real name is not misleading. The Biblical character Adam is fictional. The earth was created over 4 billion years ago.
Justt dropit with what peoples username is....You're insulting genuine members here, who have been around years...Not days like you. You can use whatever username you want, Hair colours, fake names...anything, My name isn't Emmalee....do you have an issue with that?
What made you decide to have casual sex each time? What did he say or do that made you decide that you wanted his penis inside you?
Not ever wanting sex and being happy to be a virgin at 26 most certainly is unusual. It's a decade older than the age at which the average person first has sex. Saying that a person is unusual is not an insult.
What specifically do I need to apologise for? I've not insulted anyone, nor have I intended to. I'm here to receive good advice and find the information I need. I don't want an argument or hostility; I'm disappointed to have found it here. I just want to have sex without wasting a huge amount of time, money and effort, which is a perfectly normal and reasonable desire which should not offend anyone. I thought that the Sex and Relationships section of a forum on a sex-positive site would be an ideal place to find that.
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I've had sex. I've had casual sex. I like sex. I like the people I've had sex with.
What specifically did you like about the people you had casual sex with? What did they say or do that made you want casual sex with them?
There's nothing 'specific' because they've all been very different.
The only thing that perhaps they have in common is that they've treated me like a human being, not a vagina with extra bits. But you don't get that bit.
Just don't open the thread and unsubscribe its simple as that, Mods work office hours...and since its bank Holiday...if this thread gets 'closed' it'll be on Tuesday.
They wouldn't be working today. Jo7 is on here though.
I don't understand
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Why are you even posting here? This is hardly helpful to the situation.
Please stop this isnt your thread.
I think the difference between you and your colleague is that you see women solely as sexual objects designed to please you. You'd have a better chance getting laid if you actually treated women like humans
They clearly wanted sex with you without getting to know you well, and they were successful in doing so. Hence they saw you in a sexual way. In what way did they 'treat you like a human being', and in what way am I not doing that with the girls I'm trying to get sex with? What did they talk to you about to make you keen to have sex with them soon after meeting them?
He treated everyone he encountered purely as a means to get what he wanted. He didn't respect anyone. He was intensely selfish and never cared about anyone.
What specifically am I not doing that I should do in order to treat them like humans and enable me to get a lot of no-strings sex? Casual sex doesn't involve getting to know someone well.