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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Wen me n my boyf were avin sex last nite i kept gettin this feelin that i really really needed to go to the toilet but i didnt...does anyone know wot could it have been??
thanx for any replies! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Are we talking number 1's or number 2's?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    This is a question that ive seen posted on tons of messageboards over the past few years, so youre obviously not alone in wondering whats up with the sensation to pee during sex.

    Actually, this sensation is commonly noted as a signal of impending ejaculation (Yes, girls can squirt too).

    From all ive read (and thats a pretty considerable volume of reports, essays, articles, etc.) the sensation you are experiencing is caused by stimulation of your g-spot (upper wall of the vagina just behind the pubic bone).

    What ive read is that many women who could normally ejaculate do not know they can and tend to suppress this urge out of fear of embarrassment (since many females THINK they will urinate).

    The only direct advice I could offer is to relax into the feeling and let go. Its a very exciting experience for your partner (after the initial surprise wears off) and will allow you to experience an orgasm so intense you might literally feel like youve left your body.

    If you have more curiosity about female ejaculation, check out this link for starters:

    I hope this answers your question and I hope you find a new level of release!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ^^ what he said <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    the G-spot is apparently a collection of nerves (or tissue, or summat, I'm not a biologist!) that is connected to your urethra, or is certainly very close to it. hence the sensation that something very embarrassing could happen.

    however, it's nothing to worry about because once you've banished that niggling feeling it's something to enjoy, and can lead to a fairly explosive finish! <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> if you really feel worried try doing Kegels - tense the muscle that you tense in order to stop peeing. during sex this increases sensation for both of you and also means that no matter how hard you try, you can't pee!
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