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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
well, i jsut discovered this site and i think it's a great thing to be able to talk about all these "taboo" things. i'm freeeench and i'm 14. i just have one quesiton to ask, because reading all these messages about loosing your virginity and it being painful REALLy scared the hell outta me! i would like to know if it does hurt that much or not. i would appreciate any answer! thanks a million. o btw for me virginity is quite important though im not into nsbm ( no sex before marriage) given that i don't plan on getting married! anyhow, u shouldnt just give it up to any1 because it is a precious "gift"....

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey. Having the sex 4 the first time is painful, but if its wiv some 1 u love and care about u will be relaxed and it wont hurt half as much! And once the first times over think of all the fun u could have!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanks for letting me know... HUUm i guess i better find som1 i really like b4 givin my virginty up cose im not abou to suffer for some idiot! specially since i make a big deal about a tiny bruise.... well i guess i shall start preparing myself mentally for htis already!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I waited 4 ages B4 having sex because i thought it would really hurt. then i found this really nice guy. I told him my worries and when it finally came to doing the deed he was just as scared as me. But it didn't hurt a bit!!!! No pain, no tears and especially no blood. I had never fingered myself B4 or used a tampon or been horse riding so my hymen was pretty certainly in tact.
    My advice is take it slow and enjoy it. There is no point waiting 4 pain that might never come!!!!! Have fun!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Plismi

    This question is asked often. Here's a recent thread that will give you your answer: http://www.thesite.org/ubb/Forum1/HTML/001433.html
    You can also do a search of the boards to find out more.

    Here's our guide for newbies, written by the regulars: http://www.thesite.org/ubb/Forum27/HTML/000001.html

    The regulars get a bit bored of the same questions coming up over and over again, so I'm closing this thread.
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