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Why dont I orgasm?
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HI, this is my first post, my name's Kav and i'm 16. I've bin with my b/f for 7 months and i relly love him, we've not had sex but we've done everything else, which i really enjoy and im really comfortable with. Thing is, i've never had an orgasm. im totally relaxed and everything, so thats the the problem. Its not really a worry, and me and my b/f can talk about it fine, its just i'd love to orgasm as i think i must be missing out. Neither of us have had any experience with other people but its not like we're inexperienced because we've bin giving each other oral and everything for quite a while now. Any advice about what we're doing wrong would be greatly appreciated, or anyone elses sure-fire orgasm tricks. I get so turned on all the time, just never seem to actually orgasm. Thanks a lot xx
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BUT WHY DON'T YOU TRY TOUCHING YOURSELF WITH HIM IN THE ROOM?! HE WILL GET THRILLS OF WATCHING YOUR REACH HEAVEN AND AT THE SAME TIME YOU WOULD BE REACHING HEAVEN AND LOVING IT!!!
OR GET HIS PENIS AND STIMIULATE YOURSELF WITH IT BY HOLDING IT AND STROKE IT ON YOUR CLIT,YOU WILL LOVE THE ORGASAM AND HE WILL LOVE IT TO COZ HE WILL FEEL PROUD THAT YOU UED HIS DICK AS A SELF HELP TOOL!
That's the best thing to do, if you can't bring yourself to orgasm it's difficult for anyone else to <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
Good luck, and if you try devil's idea make sure to use a condom.
well my first bf managed it before i did! i just couldnt do it to myself for ages, and he could..... i keep on breaking all the things people say lol like about sex not hurting if youve used tampons and now this! sorry im just being awkward <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
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I just wouldn't put it in those terms sounds a bit crude!!!
Uh...... someone explain?!
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yeah, oral sex can be absolutely amazing as long as he knows what he's doing...
Freya xx
Have you ever confused a dream with life?
Ta freya <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
she means have him lick her and some times it can also mean have his tounge up her .
why dont you try some kind of roleplay? the gets you REALLY turned on coz if your turned on you a relaxed and that may help you come easier. honey always sends me sky when my blokey licks it out of me! yumm
also what you were saying about you fingering in private. Fingering never makes me come. but touching my clit does. however its different for different weman.
and yes i did forget to mention but what ever you do for fucks sake make sure that if his dick dose come in contact with your vigy use a fucking CONDOM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and DON'T!!!!!! touch your self if youve just been holding yourself coz you could have sperm on you fingers and then in a couple months time you will be finking why have i got a bump!!!!! big NO NO NO NO NO !!! UNLESS YOU WANT TO BE PREGNANT.belive you me i have had a pregnancy scare and it was theworst week of my life!!!
so i meant to say don't touch yourself if youve been holding hiz dick!!!!!!!!
i wouldnt say that. i cant remember the first orgasm i had so it cant have been that different! it depends on circumstances really, the build up, etc.
me neither, i dont know why blokes who make themselves out to be all experienced and stuff dont realise that. but doesnt all of that come under the umbrella of fingering? hmmm thats what i always thought anyway.
I love deadlines. I love the whooshing noise they make as they go by.
~ the late, great Douglas Adams