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Voyeurism

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Mmmm...touchy subject I know...

When I was at uni, there was a girl who lived in the flat opposite...she would wander around every morning in her room naked...every second dayor so, her boyfriend would come round - and leave nothing to the imagination...

...so why not look away I hear you ask?

...well...I couldn't deny the effect it had on me...my flatmates agreed with me, it wasn't like watching porn or a live sex show...it was really hard to articulate...but I recall a sensation similar to when I first starting kissing girls when I was 12 - something really exciting...

the girl really didn't seem to give a fig about her privacy - leaving the lights and curtains fully open in the night...our windows were right opposite...ok, we were discrete but it must have crossed her mind that there might be other eyes watching...

What am I trying to say here?...not sure really...lol...it's just that I hear people who do what my flatmates and I did getting called "perverts"..well, I wouldn't call myself a "pervert"...I defy any red blooded male not to stand and watch a beautiful girl (as she was) wandering around naked and get up to fun without making any effort to conceal it...

...although, people hanging around at night actively trying to look through girl's windows is a bit weird..I would not advocate that.

any one had any similiar experiences? or anyone who likes to show themselves off and be watched? any views would be welcome.

Cheers.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thats wicked!!! Wish i was at your uni mate!!
    I would think that maybe she really got off on the possibility of being watched - though if she knew it for definate im not sure what she would think!!! Unfortunately nothing like that happened accross from my room, though there were some wild parties and scantily clad women. Personally, ive had sex in a window or in potential view of passers-by a fair few times and i find it a huge turn on.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well I've just kinda been that girl :o

    In our flat, our couch is in front of the window and I was leaning over it looking out the window, my boyfriend came up behind me and one thing lead to another and we ended up having sex with lots of people driving by and a bus stop across the road! Realistically tho I dont think anyone from the road could have seen in but someone from the flats across the road could have easily seen and it was the thought that someone could see us that made me really horny!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol Since I moved in to the new house in februay I still haven't got any blinds on my windows, and I just wander round my room naked half the time, and have got upto some fun....

    Personally, if it freaks out the neighbours they shouldn't look at the window, and if they spend their entire day watching, waiting for me next to walk past naked it's their time being wasted, I couldn't give a damn.

    I will eventually get round to getting blinds though.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would look, so I don't blame you.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by glittery_vodka
    Well I've just kinda been that girl :o

    In our flat, our couch is in front of the window and I was leaning over it looking out the window, my boyfriend came up behind me and one thing lead to another and we ended up having sex with lots of people driving by and a bus stop across the road! Realistically tho I dont think anyone from the road could have seen in but someone from the flats across the road could have easily seen and it was the thought that someone could see us that made me really horny!

    Interesting post glittery_vodka! It's just that I went to Glasgow University! Maybe you were that girl! Umm...is your flat a first floor flat? *laughs out loud*
    :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

    So it was you that I could see peeking thru the curtains for all them months?!?!

    lol :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by glittery_vodka
    :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

    So it was you that I could see peeking thru the curtains for all them months?!?!

    lol :D

    Yep! Ummmm...is your flat off the Great Western Road by any chance? lol
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :eek: stalker :eek:

    *glittery runs off to dial 999*

    ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think I'd look. How could anybody not look! :)
    Nearly been caught a few times myself by trying alfresco sex. Recently a snog which turned in to a full groping, tits out, session was nearly caught by a jogger. If he had only been going passed 10 seconds earlier he would've seen everything. :eek: :D

    Mr_Wobble ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by glittery_vodka
    :eek: stalker :eek:

    *glittery runs off to dial 999*

    ;)

    lol...don't worry...this was all a couple of years ago..just curious though if you stayed in the West End..I loved it there. :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :)

    Nah I wasnt a Westender, Im origionally a Northener but now Im on the Southside. (Confused? U will be!!)

    The West end is cool tho, some nice bars n eateries n stuff. I went to QMU a few times too, not as good as my old haunt, Strathclyde union tho :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    In my dorm my first year of uni, I was in our laundry room one night and looked across the courtyard to another dorm and there were two people going at it doggystyle with the lights on (makes it quite visible)...being 18 and childish...I told everyone in my hall about it and they soon had an audience. I didn't watch though...couldn't be pulled away from the movie I was watching.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by glittery_vodka
    :)

    Nah I wasnt a Westender, Im origionally a Northener but now Im on the Southside. (Confused? U will be!!)

    The West end is cool tho, some nice bars n eateries n stuff. I went to QMU a few times too, not as good as my old haunt, Strathclyde union tho :p

    ...lol..ok..got ya...I was a member of the QM...anyway...sorry...back to the main subject...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sounds as though she is a bit of an exhibitionist, in which case she & her boyfriend obviously don't mind being watched, so you can't be blamed for having the odd peek !

    I'm abit like Alistair, walking around my apartment naked quite often. Although I do have blinds, so am not showing myself off too much. If people complain, then they are obviously trying to look too hard, in which case they are hypocritical pervs ! The only thing I would say, is I think you should be a little discrete, if you are overlooked by maybe families or children. But as most of the experiences being recounted here are from being at 'Uni', then only adults or young people are involved.

    So 'Shubunkin'.........go for it !:D ;):D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Nothing wrong with the old peeping tom routine if she is game for it, Which she seemed to be!

    I wouldn't mind being watched if I was in a safe environment


    :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I was getting changed once and accidently pulled the curtains down...it would have been ok but i lived right on a main road! :o:p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by LacyMay2k
    I was getting changed once and accidently pulled the curtains down...it would have been ok but i lived right on a main road! :o:p

    Accidentally eh, I'm sure it was!

    You little fibbers, you did it for the buzz’s;) :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Harmless


    Accidentally eh, I'm sure it was!

    You little fibbers, you did it for the buzz’s;) :D

    Nah if i'd done it on purpose i would have hung out the window! :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol, Now that a way to stop Traffic!:D :):D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Harmless
    lol, Now that a way to stop Traffic!:D :):D

    No more lowering the speed limit! :p
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