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Gettin' jiggy under age...........

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I really need your help. I fancy my m8, i know 4 a fact that he fancies me, great? not quite there is a catch. He is 2 yrs older than me (16) therefore if we do start going out as i and i know he would really love, hes gonna want more than a hug + kiss goodnight. Hes either going to look to me 4 that something extra or hes gonna go off and i am gonna b the girl who cant keep her b/f under control. I know that i dont have to do anything i dont want and that if he doesnt respect that then he aint worth it but that dont really help. ADVICE PLEASE
W_G

Eagles may soar but weasles don't get sucked into jet engiens

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmm, it's really up to u. Cos if u don't wanna do sexual thing wiv him then as u've already implied u realise u would find going out with him hard. Thing is, stuff like that comes naturally if ur wiv some1 u really like, n u might find things get to that stage. After all u are obviously quite mature for your age otherwise u wouldn't like a 16yrold in the 1st place.
    think about it
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    xxxs

    Who ate all the pies??
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just cos the guy is 16 it doesn’t mean he’ll necessarilly demand sex. I know a lot of guys who r 16 and still virgins and don’t mind 2 much cos they r waiting 4 the right girl. Not ALL guys r desperate 4 sex. Im 14 and seeing a guy who is 16 and even tho he thinks im 16 he leaves it up 2 me to decide whether I want sex.
    Ive actually been in the same situation a few times and the advice id give is that even if u like the guy really much, in the end ur virginity is more important. Don’t rush into anything that ur not ready 4, cos ive known loads of people do this and get really hurt or regret it so badly afterwards. If u really like the guy hold on and just c wat happens. I really don’t think he will go off u straight away jus cos u wont have sex. Think of the reasons he liked u in the 1st place. If he’s a good guy he’ll hold onto that and wait until your completely ready. Gud luk!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well, firstly, u shudnt give a toss about being under the legal age - i mean, d'ya think the police raid the rooms of under 16y/o's at night 2 check they're not doing nefink they shudnt b? no, of course not.
    secondly, wot makes u so sure that he wud want 2 ave sex wiv u wen ur both so young? i mean, he is only 16 - jus coz u CAN do sumfink doesn't mean u HAVE to, u no?
    erm, ive actually 4gotten wot the rest of ur post said, so im guna shut up now, but yeah, fink bout it, k?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thank u guyz so much, i really do appreciate your help. Amoung you and my mates the descision seems to be unanymous so im gonna go 4 it. Thank you all again.

    W_G



    Eagles may soar but weasles don't get sucked into jet engiens
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Here's your guide to the law: http://www.thesite.org/sex/general_sex/sex__whats_within_the_law.html

    I would just like to point out that there ARE prosecutions for underage sex every year. Parents of underage girls have been known to report their boyfriends to the police.

    Read these too: http://www.thesite.org/sex/general_sex/risky_sex.html http://www.thesite.org/sex/pregnancy/ http://www.thesite.org/sex/sexual_health/
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wat r u?her mum!Y does every1 take underage sex so bloody seriously?If she wants 2 do it, she can!Wat r the police gonna do, cum round and arrest them while they r shagging?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just doing my job.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you have a job? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    If there's anything more important than my ego around here, i want it caught and shot now
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Allegedly...
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    wats ur job actually like?i mean it must be pretty cool just working on the net all day.wat kinda stuff u have 2 do?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't start being nice to me now. I'll get all confused.

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