trying again

Former Member

thanks I was too nervous to look into it, been thinking about it a bit though. it was really hard talkig to her. I could try tell what I told her and what she said. yeahi tried to have a relaxed day but bit stressful and confusing tbh.

James

Hey guys - I've deleted the last couple of posts as we were getting a bit off-topic

katie - opening up to your friend was a huge step! I can totally understand that it must have felt pretty scary and unsettling. It sounds like that conversation has made you see yourself a bit differently. Seeing ourselves in a new way can often feel a bit like someone's pulled the carpet from under us. It's normal for it to take a while to process. How are you feeling about everything now? Is it any less strange?

One possibly helpful thing about calling a helpline like the one I posted earlier is that they don't know you. Maybe talking to them would be a bit different than talking to your friend?

Hope you're okay

Former Member

thanks, you it did make me look at myself differently, and still doesn't feel normal. thanks I will think about ringing them again and maybe give it a go, thanks

James

Okay
If it's still a bit daunting, you could try writing down what you want to say before you phone. That might make it a little easier?

Former Member

thanks jpick, that's a good idea I willtry that. today I still feel strange, kinda lost like I still don't know who I am anymore! I don't know what to believe about myself