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Have you ever come from blowjobs before?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
I hardly have, it's kind of like a plateau, it feels good, but then doesn't go anywhere.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My ex used to. Spoiled the night I'd say haha!

    It could be the person giving you oral, not everyone will ejaculate when given a blow job, and you're not the only one. So try not to let it affect you as much. Or, try telling the person giving you oral what ''you'' like, this may help you to ejaculate. But don't fear!:)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hello ncoa1

    I don't think you should be worried by this as we're not all the same and react differently. sophiepea makes a valid point about communicating with your partner and describing what you like and any preferences you might have ? I've included a link to an article on TheSite which might be a good read for you both actually. http://www.thesite.org/sex-and-relationships/having-sex/giving-him-good-head-3942.html .

    If you feel concerned this might be a problem, it's worth considering getting in touch with one of our trained advisors (http://www.thesite.org/ask-a-question/ask-about-relationships) who can give a confidential response within 3 working days. Another option would be to seek advice or reassurance about the situation from Brook (https://www.askbrook.org.uk). Brook provide free and confidential advice on all aspects of sex and relationships.

    Take it easy dude and fear not!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have once, but it is usually just a foreplay thing.
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