first time trauma

Former Member

this is really hard 2 talk about so bear with me.

Back when i was 13 itried having sex 4 the first time but when he put it in it hurt that much we stopped. At first though it was really embarrasing; i wasn't that bothered and thought it was just my hymen braking but afer thinking about it for a week or two i realised it couldn't be because the pain was far up inside my vagina and the hymen is near the entrance.

The guy i was with was 19 or 20 and quite well endowd (about 9inchs) and i thought that might have been it. But I now i'm not so sure. for years i've been worried there's sumthing wrong with me.
Every time the oppertunity to have sex has cum up i've avoided it. But my libido is going through the roof and foreplay & masterbation just isn't enough nemore. Yet i don't wanna try again untill i know what went wrong.

If ne1 knows what could have caused it i'd b so gratefull.

Former Member

Hi ya neurotic_cyberfreek86,

Have a look at this site for a start: http://ned.thesite.org.uk//sex/general_sex/painful_sex.html

Ultimately, you may need to consult your doctor to find the underlying cause - just to make sure your health isn't at risk.

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