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Marathon Masturbation

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Like just about everyone (whether they admit it or not), I enjoy masturbation. It feels good and it relieves sexual tension. But unlike many guys I've known, I like to make it last for a long time. When I start a wanking session, I generally like to go at it for an hour or more. I start and stop to keep from climaxing too soon, but generally I keep it up for the whole time.

Past roommates and such have always done the job in five or ten minutes and have teased me a bit for my extended sessions.

Am I odd? Does anyone else go for extended sessions?

Thanks for your response.

c-b

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Sounds like you should get out more, mate ... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Actually, I have a girlfriend, and we have sex three or four times a week. But when I get horny in between seeing her, I often masturbate. In addition, I have friends and do things on evenings and weekends. It's just that several times a week I'll masturbate for an hour or more.

    c-b
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    I was only teasing, mate ... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Anyway, if what you do and how long you do it for gives you pleasure and doesn't hurt anyone else, GO FOR IT!!!!

    I personally would just get too impatient to wank for an hour - unless it was a mutual masturbation thing. Solo would just be too lonely for me for an hour or more ...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No problem J@ke. ;-)

    Actually, I find my climaxes are better if I extend the lead time. The longer I wank, the better it is at the end. Not that I don't have quick sessions when necessary, but I much prefer to go the distance. Besides, if it feels that good, why not make it last?

    It's just that most guys I've known (and known about their masturbation habits) tend towards quickies. In general, I've known more women than men who take their time.

    c-b
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Yeah, I think most blokes do tend to get on with it. But unlike doing it with someone else, I'm not sure I could entertain myself for such extended periods of time.

    Which "colony" are you from, by the way?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I usually end up cruising the web for good pics, watching videos, or reading erotica. I've never become bored in the middle of it, but I do understand that sometimes you reach that point where you can wait no longer.

    And I'm from the States. One of the more rebellious of the colonies.
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    i dont see anything wrong with extending it for as long as you like colonial-bloke. i know i do <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; (hehehe thought it was about time females stopped pretending they dont masturbate! hehe)... but yeah its obviously a lot more enjoyable with a partner and it makes you more ... i dunno, motivated maybe, to last longer and bring each other to the brink of orgasm and back. but i dont see why theres any reason why you shouldnt do it by yourself when you want to.

    nothing odd at all <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Actually, when I do mutual masturbation, it usually lasst for less time. Watching someone else go at it gets me hot very quickly and I can't hold back. So either I climax much quicker, or if it's my girl I'm wanking with, we proceed to other activities.

    But I have found that in general, the women I've known tend to masturbate for longer periods of time than the guys. (And I have no misconceptions about women not masturbating -- I know you gals like it as much as we blokes do.)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by colonial-bloke:
    And I'm from the States. One of the more rebellious of the colonies.


    Hmmmm ... if you are from the States, you may well be circumcised. Perhaps that is why you can keep it going for so long - to do with sensitivity etc?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't think that you are wierd. I agree that it is alot better. You are teasing your body and once its let out it is ace!!!The build up is great-the longer the better.
    Do you like 'extended seesions' in bed with your girlfriend too?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No, I don't think ur odd!! I try to extend sometimes too but others i just can't wait!! hahahaha. And, even if it did make you "odd" as such, who cares?!?! Masturebation is personal and i guess everyone likes it somewhat different!! So, do what's best for u!!

    ~*~JiLLiaNNe~*~
    If you love something, set it free.
    If it comes back it's yours, if it doesn't it never was.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Does your girlfriend have a wooly coat and live in a field with others? :+)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Cheeky: yes, I do like extended sessions with my gf, though that tends to run the range. Sometimes they're afternoon quickies; sometimes they're hours long lovemaking sessions; and sometimes they're something in between.

    And while masturbation has the same continuum of times, it does seem to be slanted more towards long sessions. Maybe that's because we both find it harder to hold back when we're together.

    Powerslave: Nope, no danger of foot and mouth with the gf.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
    . i know i do <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; (hehehe thought it was about time females stopped pretending they dont masturbate! hehe)...

    lol, who was pretending?
    i bloody well wasnt <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    lol well a lot of girls seem to claim they dont. well one of my friend actually doesnt, we had this discussion the other night and as part of my truth telling in the way of female masturbation i just told her straight out i did lol and she was sooooo shocked, partly at the fact i did and partly at the fact i just said! hehe

    I'm 18 and 5 months. :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by SusieLovesCalvin:
    lol, who was pretending?
    i bloody well wasnt <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    o really?... u learn something new everyday. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Calvin:
    o really?... u learn something new everyday. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;


    shoosh you!!
    i really ought to get a life though.. i may get obsessed.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Still, while many women are shy about admitting that they masturbate, from my experience they are more open about it than guys. (Not hard, I know.)

    Most guys I ask will deny, hedge, or at best grudgingly admit that once in a while they'll masturbate. Few are the guys like me that will freely admit (in public) that they masturbate a lot.
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