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National Orgasm Day

**helen****helen** Deactivated Posts: 9,235 Supreme Poster
You know there's a day for everything! :love:

So basically it's a day dedicated to sexual pleasure, and no doubt a chance for Ann Summers and other retail outlets to market on the back of it! :rolleyes: :p

Here at TheSite we're thinking a lot about intimacy (EDIT - purely for content/advice purposes Shyboy!).

What kind of things can someone do for you to make it more likely you'll enjoy your time under the covers...

This is also a chance for you to chat about orgasms more generally - I know they can be a sticky topic...
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you do have an orgy at thesite towers do let us know

    Sent from my Nexus 4 using Tapatalk 4 Beta
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I can tell you what doesn't.....

    Waking up next to a boy with a morning glory issue who gets the idea of a quickie into his head - before you've even really woken up.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    give away some toys Helen ;) and then we can get back to you about how it went!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I got a vibrator from TS once.

    Sorry, "personal massager".
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    piccolo wrote: »
    I got a vibrator from TS once.

    Sorry, "personal massager".

    Me too :D.

    It was crap though tbf.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Me too :D.

    It was crap though tbf.

    Me three.

    Massive thing. Actually quite good for massage though.
  • **helen****helen** Deactivated Posts: 9,235 Supreme Poster
    I can tell you what doesn't.....

    Waking up next to a boy with a morning glory issue who gets the idea of a quickie into his head - before you've even really woken up.

    Is this with the current boy?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I can tell you what doesn't.....

    Waking up next to a boy with a morning glory issue who gets the idea of a quickie into his head - before you've even really woken up.

    Ugh why do they do that :yeees: Im not the most sociable person at the best of mornings.

    I tell you what is good though, and yes i know its sad ive only just discovered this a few months ago at the age of 22 but.... neck kissing. Oh. My. God. Just in that little spot right there, I could never get bored of that! :love:
  • **helen****helen** Deactivated Posts: 9,235 Supreme Poster
    Quite a lot of the coverage elsewhere online around this day has focussed on people faking - I wonder if anyone has done this while in a relationship? I guess it's perhaps not so much of an issue in a more casual situation...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    There's nothing more dissapointing than a shit orgasm. Or when your body just won't get there
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ballerina wrote: »
    a shit orgasm

    Isn't that anal sex ? :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    RubberSkin wrote: »
    Isn't that anal sex ? :)

    You tell me :P
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    **helen** wrote: »
    Is this with the current boy?

    This is with current boy.

    Slight misalignment of mindsets in the early morning. Not helped by the fact that his alarm goes off nearly an hour before mine usually would and my immediate response to this is usually to roll over and go back to sleep. He's learning though.

    I'm with Lexi on neck kissing though. All the way.
  • SkiveSkive Posts: 15,282 Skive's The Limit
    The morning is when us men are generally at our horniest. Mornng sex is the best sex.
    Weekender Offender 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Skive wrote: »
    The morning is when us men are generally at our horniest. Mornng sex is the best sex.

    Nah, randomly woken up in the middle of the night sex is the best sex.

    Also, Lexi/Scary - neck kissing is good, but it's not a patch on ear kissing/a little nibble on the earlobe.
  • **helen****helen** Deactivated Posts: 9,235 Supreme Poster
    Skive wrote: »
    The morning is when us men are generally at our horniest. Mornng sex is the best sex.

    What do you think is the best way for a guy to broach this in a way that means it's just as enjoyable for the other half?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Neck kissing - or ear nibbling it would seem!
  • **helen****helen** Deactivated Posts: 9,235 Supreme Poster
    Neck kissing - or ear nibbling it would seem!

    :lol:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Haha absolutely!
  • SkiveSkive Posts: 15,282 Skive's The Limit
    **helen** wrote: »
    What do you think is the best way for a guy to broach this in a way that means it's just as enjoyable for the other half?

    Go in for a subtle spoon and prod her in the back. They love it,

    Serioulsy never had a missus that wasn't happy being woken up for sex in the morning. Biologically men are horniest in the morning, in when testosterone levels peak.
    Weekender Offender 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Earlobe nibbling for the win!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Skive wrote: »
    Mornng sex is the best sex.

    I used to set my alarm 15-30mins early exactly for this reason.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    G-Raffe wrote: »
    Earlobe nibbling for the win!

    Do men honestly enjoy this as well? I always thought men saw anything else other than touching their stuff as a waste of time
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lexi99 wrote: »
    Do men honestly enjoy this as well? I always thought men saw anything else other than touching their stuff as a waste of time

    !!!

    Dude. I could teach you SO MUCH.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I find moaning/breathing gently in their ear works. And a slight nibble on the collar bone.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Having my hair played with too *dreamy face*

    Mornings are great for sex. Bedhead is sexy, the fact you've been snuggling all night is sexy. Though on a work day I'd always rather have the extra 30 minutes asleep than have a shag...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah morning sex is best reserved for lazy weekends. Otherwise sleep wins
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lexi99 wrote: »
    Do men honestly enjoy this as well?

    Hell yeah!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't deny that mornings are great for sex, just allowing sliiiiiiightly more time between the BEEEP BEEEP BEEP BEEEEP kicking you out of a deep slumber would help.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    He should be waking you more gently than that tbh ;)
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