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To much masturbating

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
So. I think I'm masturbating to much is that possible? I masturbate regularly, and I think it's got to far, but it's got to a point where I just need to do it, and I can't stop I just need it.

I'm kind of lost on what to do. But I masturbate like whenever I can. Often 10 times a day?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Do you do it where you shouldn't?
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    Annaarrr!!Annaarrr!! Posts: 876 Part of The Mix Family
    Has it fallen off? That's normally a good sign you've done it too much. (Really hope you're male)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yes, at times I do Fiend_85.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi James

    Masturbation is perfectly normal and not something to be ashamed about - unless, like others have suggested, you're doing it somewhere or sometime that you shouldn't be!

    I thought you might like to read our article about 'masturbation management' which talks about this in more detail. We also have some Q&As that might be interesting for you:

    Addicted to masturbation


    Will masturbation cause me harm?

    :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yes, at times I do Fiend_85.

    What do you mean by somewhere you shouldn't?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think the most inappropriate place I did it was the pews at church
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yes, at times I do Fiend_85.

    I think the first thing you need to do is stop doing it where you shouldn't. I'm assuming you mean outdoors or in public. If that is the case and you get caught the only place you'll be doing it is the inside of a cell.

    Once you've stopped doing it where you shouldn't it doesn't really matter how many times you do it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    How old are you James? It's not uncommon in teenage years for the sex drive to be on overdrive, but it should settle down as you get older.

    Have you tried mixing it up. So try distracting yourself from masturbation when you get the 'urge' and instead of treating it like a need that needs fulfilling, treat it like some personal time for you and yourself to get to know each other better. Get relaxed and chilled and go for it.

    You may find that even still masturbation frequently you feel more comfortable about it when you think of it as something you do for fun rather something you do to fulfil a need
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Reminds me of the Monty Python Penis Song
    Isn't it awfully nice to have a penis?
    Isn't it frightfully good to have a dong?
    It's swell to have a stiffy.
    It's divine to own a dick,
    From the tiniest little tadger
    To the world's biggest prick.
    So, three cheers for your Willy or John Thomas.
    Hooray for your one-eyed trouser snake,
    Your piece of pork, your wife's best friend,
    Your Percy, or your cock.
    You can wrap it up in ribbons.
    You can slip it in your sock,
    But don't take it out in public,
    Or they will stick you in the dock,
    And you won't come back.
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    Indrid ColdIndrid Cold Posts: 16,688 Skive's The Limit
    I don't think this poster has a penis. "James" must be a reference to something, maybe the band.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Are you masturbating mostly to porn?
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