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is bein fingered ment 2 hurt?!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
the other nite i let this lad i know finger me, is it supposed 2 hurt? because it hurt me, but when ive had it done before it hasnt hurt, was it just him? <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hey hunny. i was fingered by this guy once and he was unintentionally rough about it and it hurt. is that what happened to you? it is usually really nice but i guess it is cos some guys go about it the wrong way!

    sponge xxx <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No, it's not supposed to hurt. Ouch <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> Any bleeding?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think he must ahve been doing something wrong.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I dont fink it's supposed 2 hurt Hunni, he must'v dun sumfin wrong cuz it's supposed 2 be pleasurable not painful! <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    its not supposed to hurt it must have been the bloke.

    my ex didnt complain!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I was fingered for the first time a few weeks ago and it hurt me aswell! i thort that it may have been coz its my first time!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It also could've hurt because he had dry hands and you weren't comfortable/turned on [wet] enough.
    He needs to be gentle and has to lube his finger up first!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it's not suppossed to hurt but it can for a number of reasons;

    *it was your first time or you havent had much experience of doing this before
    *you were a bit nervous or tense
    *you werent wet enougth
    *he was a bit too rough and not gentle
    *he had sharp nails

    think thats about it. dont worry it can hurt when some of theses reasons are present but you will soon get used to it and start to enjoy it <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> . train your bloke by showing and guiding him to do it how you like it <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no its not ment to hurt its sposed to be pleasurable!!!
    its nothing for you to worry about tho its prob just the guy or it wasnt rite (wot people av sed above!)
    one of the guys that fingered me woz so rough that it felt like he woz tryin to reach up and pull my insides out!!! wheras other guys its bin great and its felt really good!!! if this guy is some1 ure in a relationship with try telling him to calm it down or as most magazines advice SHOW him how you like it!!
    sorry if not helpfull!
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