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The spliting or the hymen

MixBotMixBot Posts: 8,656 Automated Account
The hymen is split when a penis (Or whatever) is inserted for the first time right... but I've heard that if a girl does Gymnastics or dancing or whatever it can sometimes split... is this true?

If the hymen was split in this way would sex be painful the first time? Sorry to ask these questions but I don't like rumours. I just wanna know if this is true or not.
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's true you can split your hymen doing gym,riding a bike etc or even inserting tampons...not sure about the pain during first time sex, although i'm thinking that it will still be painful, just not as painful. (*displaying far too much knowledge for a lad*)

    [This message has been edited by Davester (edited 27-05-2001).]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My hymen broke before I had sex, I'm not exactly sure why (probly masturbation or tampon use). Sex for the first time wasn't painful at all for me. Of course, it really depends... there are never any set rules.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have been riding since i was 5 yrs old. It still absolutely killed for me. You'dve thought not but oh well.......

    I thought when my love for you died, I should die too. It is dead but strangely, I live on.
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Mega Poster Posts: 2,822
    i used tampons and it still hurt me.

    but yes it can be broken through various reasons and then sex not hurt so much. just not to me.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yep, what everyone else said. your hymen can break through sports or tampon use or masturbation and stuff, im not really sure aboutfirst time sex hurting wen its already broken tho. i think its just different 4 everyone <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    A lot of girls hymens break naturally before sex, but it can break just partailly, which is why it can still hurt.A lot of girls just have a very small hymen naturally, or it can stratch and break namturally as the vagina grows at puberty. Also, the hymen breaking isn't the only reason that sex can be painful, it can be due to not enough lube etc. if a girl hasn't had much fingering etc., then she can still be quite tight, so the penis has to force its way in harder. Hope that helps <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm convinced that mine was only partially broken through sex!!! Not only was he, not particularly well endowed <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; the second time we did it, it still hurt and felt pretty much like the first time after.



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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by freya:
    the second time we did it, it still hurt and felt pretty much like the first time after.


    Hope you dont mind me askin freya, but does it get better quickly? Just wonderin as ive had no experience in that department!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    We broke up soon after and I havent been able to experience.. well.. unpainful sex to date <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; But I'm convinced it does get better! Well up for some more in fact. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; I think once it's fully broken it'll be fine.
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Mega Poster Posts: 2,822
    it hurt me for the first few times a fair bit, then it stopped hurting as much and got better, but still hurt a bit kinda thing. eventually it stopped hurting at all and was good <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; then i broke up with him however.... it has hurt again though for no reason, which i didnt much like <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; but some people, it doesnt hurt them hardly at all after the first time, even it hurt them then. i think it totally depends on your own body and responses really... which isnt much help i know!

    I love deadlines. I love the whooshing noise they make as they go by.
    ~ the late, great Douglas Adams
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