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Coworker snubbed me
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Don't get me wrong. Most ppl at work like me. We talk and have fun just like any other people enjoying camaraderie. This one girl, however, all she did was snub me as of recently. She didn't used to snub me. Idk y. She talks to everyone else though and I'm starting to get jealous. I'm always nice, friendly, and outgoing, so what doesn't she like about me? Consequently, I lost my will to live. Should I report her to management? What should I do?
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Also, I am not accusing you of having multiple accounts, Helen scolds me when I do check out some very similar posts by this user with very similar issues. There are some helpful pieces if advice.
http://vbulletin.thesite.org/search.php?searchid=1105594
Discussing this with your counselor and learning ways to cope is your best option.
Seek professional help to help you get over this girl. Not everyone will like you this is a fact of life one you must embrace. Just chill out when you see the girl and don't let her get you down. You have your own life and you can live it with or without her.:)
You could, but only in a "I have a feeling I may have done something to offend X, are you aware of anything?/is there anything I could do to mend the relationship?" e.t.c.
Your boss *may* know what the problem is, and *may* be able to offer you some advice, but don't expect or ask for anything other than that. Don't ask your boss to intervene, in fact make a point of asking your boss not to say anything/tell them you are quite happy to sort it.
So what?
I talk to a lot of people where I work. Doesn't mean I want to be friends with everyone there.
That might be down to your attitude and the way you have talked about people as if you are stalking them. It might make people feel uncomfortable and wary about trusting you.
:yes:
It's good your supervisor made you aware that she may seem to talk to everyone else but isn't actually so friendly :no:
Perhaps try to focus on the people that you do like at work and enjoy spending time with them - as it seems if this girl isn't giving you her time then it probably isn't worth your attention!
Good luck *hug*