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Bisexual or not

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
okay so recently ive found myself finding girls attractive as well as guys and ive also kissed quite a few guys as i have with guys as well i find my self looking at both sexes and i find both attractive so yeah would you say im bisexual or not :confused:

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    when you find them attractive is it because you want to fuck them, or is it because you wish you were like them?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    like sexually attractive
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sounds a bit bisexual then. Its not that unusual.

    When you feel sexually towards them, do you feel relationshippy with them or just sexual? Do you think youd want to have sex with them even if there was no guys watching
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you're wondering about being bisexual, then you probably are. try kissing a girl and see if it grosses you out.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You shouldn't have to label yourself as anything. I consider myself straight, because i mainly sleep with girls. But the occasional guy here and then at a party, bar/club is okay.

    But you should try it, see if you enjoy it. Watch some lesbian porn, see if you get off ;p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I thought i was bi before i decided i was pan, tbh i think most ppl are bi to an extent..
    but they're right try it and see what you think.. i know i realised i didn't really like guys after kissing one and feeling slightly repulsed, but tried with girls and liked that. Guess its only way to learn what you like :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Does it matter if you're bisexual? I mean, surely it's about the person at the end of the day... Not that I'm saying there aren't social differences if you were to date a member of the same gender, but a human is a human...

    That said, I struggled for years to get my head around being queer**, so I guess being 29 now, it does feel easier.

    I'd say just go out there and do what you wanna do. If you have sex, make sure it's safe and that they treat you with respect.
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