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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Just a quick one to the women out there.

Why do women hate giving blowjobs????

There was a discussion started by stella about men going down on women and us men love doing it. So why don't women enjoy it.

Or do you??

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well ive only given head once. n i know its weird but i really liked doing it!!!

    Ive always loved having things in my mouth... i think thats why <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> !!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im really nervous bout giving my bf a blowjob. from wot ive heard it sounds really icky. fair dos the men do it to us, but they dont have so much juice to contend with! but then again u really should return favours...
    me xxx <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not as much juice to contend with?!

    You've never been down on a girl have you!

    Anyway, at least for girls you can pull it out or spit it out without any "juice" going in your mouth..for guys it's like a constant flow in your mouth, chin, hands, whatever, quit complaining and go down!

    lol

    Phil <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i used to feel really uncomfortable giving my ex head coz i thought i looked funny!! its hardly attractive now is it??!!! n he always wanted to look at me!! lol!
    iv only been with 2 guys n given them both head.
    with my ex i didnt let him come in my mouth bcoz it made me feel ill for the rest of the day!! even if i didnt swallow!!
    i gave another guy head iand i couldnt believe how different it was!!
    evrything was different..the taste, shape texture etc etc! everything!
    anyway to cut a long story short...i love giving head now!! i started to like it bout 1yr1/2 ago with my ex...thing was after i started likin it he didnt want me to do it...he was into the whole domination thing!! lol! typical!!
    i like it now!! as long as its clean n i dont have to swallow!!
    <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol

    I noticed that, all the posts on here about it come to the conclusion they all like to look!

    I suppose it's not "attractive" but it's a major turn on to look down and see that!

    And besides, girls always look down with their hands in your hair and shit, unless they're shy and they kind of glance down then look away lol

    Women <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    Edited because I phrased something wrong and it sounded like I gave guys head! lol

    [ 25-04-2002: Message edited by: CheeseOnToast ]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by CheeseOnToast:
    <STRONG>lol

    I noticed that with all guys, they all like to look!

    I suppose it's not "attractive" but it's a major turn on to look down and see that!

    </STRONG>

    Agree with you 100% there CheeseOnToast its such a turn to see a girl on the end of your dick(Well for me it is)....I've only had a few bj and not cum on anytime(each one only lasted about 4-5mins but it felt great!)

    So i've never cum in a girl mouth before and i can't really say i want to, if it happens great but if it don't the bj it self is by far enough!!

    not sure why girls don't like doing it, but i don't blame them,Cum is not the niceest smelling thing in the world <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah and nice job quoting what I edited out of my message, LOL!!!

    You're right though, major turn on <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    IU never really liked doing it much but i love my man so much and i know he likes it so i do it all the time. May not taste the best but its all worth while knowing he'll please you soon after.... you scratch his back and get him to scratch yours!!! <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thinking about it some more...i love giving head!!! nice to know i can be the one giving!!...for a change!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    See I never understood why girls don't like to give their fella's a good blowjob...I enjoy giving them...but only if you blokes keep it nice and short down there and only if I'm getting something in return...See I know men get totally turned on by the visual of the woman on their cock...men are visual creatures...ladies tap into that and it's all good for both ya
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hmmm well I personally love giving my man a blowjob .. listening to him moan knowing that I am turning him on gets me off as for swallowing that I dont do but having it in your mouth at all that bad ... <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
    I have found that giving head to a circumsised guy alot more pleasurable for me also <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hey phil apologies bout the juice thing. wel then i guess it'll have to be a yes then! actually you've convinced me that it cant be that bad so thanks loads
    sponge xxx <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've only had 2 blow jobs, from the same girl, but watching her do it is a major turn on, definitely.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i wasnt very sure at all about giving my boyf a blowjob, thought i'd hate it! but one day i just thought i'd do it, and i really enjoyed it!
    I loved knowing that it was so easy to give him pleasure! now he gets it alot!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by CheeseOnToast:
    <STRONG>
    Edited because I phrased something wrong and it sounded like I gave guys head! lol
    </STRONG>
    Tee, hee

    Blowjobs? They're great. Love giving them. Get jaw ache after a while though but am such a nice person I will continue anyway. You should see how muscular my jaw is ..... lol. Really though, I don't know what all the complaining's about. So long as he's had a wash, it's quite enjoyable.
    <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    what girls moan about it anyway?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by deeby doo:
    <STRONG>what girls moan about it anyway?</STRONG>

    Erm, did you read the previous page? Or have I misunderstood your post?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    WHY DO WOMEN ALL SAY I ONLY DID IT ONCE??? STOP WITH THE LIES ,GIRLS <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why do women hate giving blowjobs????
    <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> Who said they all hate it, it turns me on alot to see how good I can make a guy feel from a blow job..like everything else, if you dont like it, dont do it, but for me watching him enjoy it & feeling his body responding to my every move is a huge turn on <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">..
    I also love being on the receiving end, I think oral makes great foreplay...If your comfortable with yourself & who your with it can be an amazing experience, and not discusting at all...
    <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    Its all good <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    [ 06-05-2002: Message edited by: 'puss' ]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> Hmmmm Strange <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    mmmmm mmmmm good oh baby how about some more

    Is that like??
    mmm ohh, yeah, thats it..there ,ohh , faster baby, harder, give it to me..yes, yes, yes, I want MORE, oh, ooh, OOH, oh my god, yes, ohhh, dont stop, right there, give me more, ohh yeahh, do it, do it, harder, faster, oh, oh Ohh..yes,yes,YES...
    TEXTUAL INTERCOURSE? <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    [ 06-05-2002: Message edited by: 'girl_down_under' ]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hehe <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> sorry, I could'nt help myself <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    There is 3 basic attitudes I seem to encounter from girls concerning BJ's. They either don't like to give them b/c they don't know how or they are to good for blow jobs and feel like they are degrading. Then there are girls that don't mind doing it for a little foreplay b/c they think you expect it but they bore me after a while b/c they have no passion for it and limited experience but I guess it adds a little variation. Then finally there are those with a passion for it. A girl with a true passion loves giving head and you can tell right from the start. Its an awesome quality and a definate plus for any relationship.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Tell you whats the most turnign off point is when they start shout out crude stuff......... makes me cringe...... then im off!!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well i've only did it 3 times to my b/f now! the 1st time wasnt so bad n he didnt want me 2 swallow!
    the 2nd time i was pissed and reached so much so i said i didnt want 2 do it again! he understood and said i didnt have 2 if i didnt want 2! then i discovered flavoured condoms and they make it a whole lot better and theres sumit about using them that made it v.exciting! Now i cant wait 4 next time! I knew i couldn't deprive him 4ever and the fact that he loves going down on me and i love him doing it, so i found a way 2do it without me reaching! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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