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College love??
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hey everyone:) okay i recently moved into an apartment in college...theres 4 boys and 4 girls:P we all seem to be getting on okay..no awkward silences or anything.Well that was till recently at least:/ You see, theres this boy living with me that i reeeally like!!:o he's like super hot, cool...and did i mention that he has an 8PACK!!!:O thing is,he hadnt a clue that i liked him before, until i kinda let it slip out on an seriously drunken night....i went up to his room when he was asleep,started banging on his door telling him that i loved him and asking him cud i jumo into his bed!!!!!:(:( and i didnt just tell him i loved him once!...ohhh noo....the whole bloody night i kept going up to his room and shouting out that i loved him!!!!:O im like sooo embarrassed !:( the following morning he said everything was cool...but like he was just laughing at me:( have i messed things up already??is there any chance that he may actually like me or want anything to do with me??:( please rsvp!!!
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By all means things might work out, but as you said yourself, you have only recently moved into college. I'm sure he wont be the only guy you might end up having the hots for and it could well have been a lucky escape. Getting into a relationship with a house mate can lead to awkward situations.
Although it sounds like you might be from over in the US and this is a UK based website, the support and advice people offer in here will still be useful.
I will add though, he might like girls who do small embarrassing things, real girls, instead of girls who act perfect and cool all the time.
Doing stuff like that just means you're human. We all have moments that we get a little embarrassed about.
He sounds like a good guy so I'm sure he understands how awkward you feel, and doesn't want to make you feel worse.
xx *hug*