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Can I Just Make A Quick Assumption Here
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For people that think sex isn't 'THAT' important in a relationship... You need look no farther than who's viewing what on this forum. Sex is important in a relationship. It may not dictate the whole relationship but never the less is still important. Why else would 1065 people be viewing the 'sex and relationships' while no other topic even compares in views.
I'm just sayin... It matters.
I'm new here and was just browsing the forum, looking at the topics, etc. I couldn't help but notice the overwhelming amount of people in the 'sex and relationships' section. This isn't directed at most people but I have ran into a few people that acted like sex wasn't important. It's pretty apparent that it is important if you asked me.
I'm going to use the newbie clause Don't burn me to bad. :wave:
Just getting the conversation going :chin:
I'm just sayin... It matters.
I'm new here and was just browsing the forum, looking at the topics, etc. I couldn't help but notice the overwhelming amount of people in the 'sex and relationships' section. This isn't directed at most people but I have ran into a few people that acted like sex wasn't important. It's pretty apparent that it is important if you asked me.
I'm going to use the newbie clause Don't burn me to bad. :wave:
Just getting the conversation going :chin:
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Ok, gotcha, that makes sense.
Anyway, there is no definate reason why, but yes it is important. Humans (well...all animals really) have 2 basic instincts, to breed and to survive. Sex can seem like a big difficult topic for many people for many different reasons (religion, past trauma, lack of knowledge on the topic), so yeah everyone (pretty much anyway) has either got a vagina or a penis and they want to know how to get the best use out of them. Simples.
That was very well put, thank you.
If you were here before they made the changes.
Sex & Relationships, used to have two separate forums. And only the Sex forum has huge amount of viewers. Sex is sex and it's not important to a relationship, specially as you can have platonic ones. As long as you're both genuinely happy with no sex, there isn't a problem. Obviously, if one person wants it and the other doesn't, then it's a mismatched relationship...
saying as statement like 'Sex IS important' to a relationship, is to much of a generalisation.
I call BS big time. Saying sex isn't important is ridiculous. If a relationship is to be solid then the significant others involved in the relationship would have to be sexually satisfied. If one or the other is not, then the relationship itself is not solid. Because the other wants 'more' than they are getting from the other.
Everybody is different... Mentally, spiritually, sexually...
Video and/or pictures please, otherwise it never happened
haha ... pictures pictures pictures :yippe: