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Loss of self confidence
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Well I have recently made a sport out of putting myself down and being a total shut in. I think I am in the running for a medal!
For really though, I don't believe in myself. I don't achieve anything. I don't think I am worth anything.
I do love life, I do have passions and I do want to change.
I just dont know quite where to start on it all.
I have no job, friends or any 'options' in my life to be what I want to be.
I think I am having a rant but... if anyone wants to offer me some advice or, anything really, that would be nice
For really though, I don't believe in myself. I don't achieve anything. I don't think I am worth anything.
I do love life, I do have passions and I do want to change.
I just dont know quite where to start on it all.
I have no job, friends or any 'options' in my life to be what I want to be.
I think I am having a rant but... if anyone wants to offer me some advice or, anything really, that would be nice
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I want to be a dog groomer, or work with rescue dogs.
I really like animals.
I recently moved to a small town where there is nothing (for my chaps work placement, so thankfully its only a year!). I have no money and things are really limited here!
I would have to travel to go anywhere and travel is really terrible here.
I feel trapped by this place, but part of me feels like.
'is it all these things or are they excuses?'
IDK sorry for rambling. I cant really talk to my man properly about things cause I dont want to totally stress him out !
On the other thing, if you want an even and balance relationship you need to be able to talk to him about the issues that you are facing individually.
I did do some reaching out to a dog groomer but they were (understandably) too busy to have me come down and take a look at how it all works.
I will look into other things like dog walking or anything else there is here!
I do talk to him a little bit but he works allot and I dont want him to come home to a miserable miss everyday xD
Thank you for just... chatting with me about this. I really appreciate it
You could also put an advert in the paper saying you'll give a half hour walk to a dog for £10 or something, then you can start expanding what you do.
Also, don't limit yourself to dogs, experience with animals is relevant.
Hopefully I can find something and someone will give me a chance.
I really feel I am due a break, you know? haha
In the mean time, what do you do to keep yourself busy during the day?
I make sure to get up, get dressed. I don't lay about.
I spend allot of the day on the internet... almost waiting for the day to be over.
Its a bit of a waste really, thinking about it!
I dont like going out of the house without a reason to go, or somewhere specific to be.
I am going to go to my home town for a bit I think!