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can we live without them?
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ive naffed up many of the relationships ive had, including family! i get so hurt! its so painful! takes me ages to trust people and it seems to be that when i get to that point of trusting, i get rejected and deverstated! i now push people away in fear of being in pain again!! life seems simplar but it can be awfully lonely!
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http://www.relate.org.uk/young-people-counselling/index.html
Don't be put off by the mention of costs, if you have no income, or are on a low income, they will work something out with you.
Jed
If it's an issue involving family and personal relationships then should be ok regardless of age.
I learnt that every situation is completely based on context and that individual, not off of another horrible experience with someone completely different. If that makes sense?
Its a horrible situation, and opening up again when you could potentially be hurt is hard and i agree life would be so much simpler... but its not how you should have to live because of others actions.
If you don't feel comfortable going in to details then I understand but is there anything you can identify in your/their behaviour that seems to lead to this feeling of rejection?