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Seizure/Fits
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I've been seeing a girl for about two months and once in a blue moon, usually after sex she'll have what I believe to be a seizure. It involves lots of uncontrollable flailing about of her hands and her head but more worryingly she seems to choking on her own tongue or saliva which is probably my main concern.
Should I only put her in the recovery position after she's stopped spasming and are all seizures caused by Epilepsy?
The real issue is that she doesn't want to talk about it so I can't really find out from her what I should do. When I asked her she said it wasn't epilepsy but I'm pretty sure it is - but then there might be a bit of a language gap because she's Spanish and English is her second language.
She's moving back to Spain next month and I'll probably never see her again but I'd just like the piece of mind that I know what to do.
Thanks in advance.
Should I only put her in the recovery position after she's stopped spasming and are all seizures caused by Epilepsy?
The real issue is that she doesn't want to talk about it so I can't really find out from her what I should do. When I asked her she said it wasn't epilepsy but I'm pretty sure it is - but then there might be a bit of a language gap because she's Spanish and English is her second language.
She's moving back to Spain next month and I'll probably never see her again but I'd just like the piece of mind that I know what to do.
Thanks in advance.
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All seizures are not epileptic. Information on seizures that are non epileptic can be found below.
The above information comes from the every day health website. The link follows... http://www.everydayhealth.com/epilepsy/understanding/when-are-seizures-not-epilepsy.aspx
Regarding the recovery position epilepsy.org reccomend that you put the individual into the recovery position once the seizure has stopped. The link below has illustrations and more information on this.
http://www.epilepsy.org.uk/info/developing-epilepsy-later-life/first-aid
It may be worthwhile asking your girlfriend to speak to a doctor regarding what she is experiencing if she hasn't already.
Hope that helps, let us know.
Phil :thumb:
I'm not going to try and get her to go to the doctors about it though. Mostly because I don't think she'll be able to. I doubt she'll be able to get an appointment booked before she leaves the country. I've got a feeling she knows quite a lot about what's going on but she just doesn't like talking about it because she was quite upset the last time it happened.
Thanks for getting back to us with an update.
Its understandable that you would be concerned in that situation as any partner would be. However it is your girlfriends right to deal with medical conditions in her own way. As you say, it sounds like she probably knows more about whats going on that she has told you.
Can you think of any reasons why this may be the case. It could be sensitive to her, but it also sounds like your being a very supportive partner who is concerned with her wellbeing.
It could be worthwhile trying to talk to your partner about this. Communication in a relationship is vital. There could be many reasons why she hasn't opened up more about this subject to you. For example, if you don't live together or meet mostly in public spaces it might always not be the best time to talk further. Finding the right time for both of you is important.
Thanks for updating us on how it went. Please keep posting to let us know how you get on.
Phil :thumb: