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family arguments

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Health & Wellbeing
When I opened up to my counsellor about the abuse, I told her I was worried about my family arguing. The only people that found out were my parents, and my nanna. A few days ago my nanna told my uncle (his dad) and it's all kicked off. My uncle told my mum he hates her and will never speak to her again, and my nanna has sided with him so she won't talk to my mum either.
I can't handle knowing that it's all my fault. I should of kept my mouth shut. I knew this would happen yet I still told someone about it. I don't know what to do, I don't know how to sort this.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi butterfly,

    I'm so sorry to hear what you're going through but please don't think you're at fault *hug*

    I'm not familiar with your situation, from what I can gather you've done the right thing, nobody has the right to harm another person physically, sexually or emotionally and speaking out is a really brave thing to do. I understand that it's a really awful time with the family falling out but there's nothing that can be done.

    Is your mum supportive of you? Have you spoken with your counsellor about what's going on right now?

    dp :heart:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hugs Butterfly, none of this is your fault, it never has been xx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Mum, dad, and my sister are all on my side but I doubt they want to be. I feel betrayed, but responsible. My counsellor had to stop working with me in october, and so did my support worker. So I have to deal with this alone and I don't think I can.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi butterfly123

    Thats unfortunate about your counselor and support worker. Is there anyone else you can confide in when your feeling low.

    Sorry to hear that you feel so alone right now too.

    If you're after confidential advice, you could always try Support Line on 01708 765200, where someone would be able to offer confidential advice and hopefully some comfort regarding how you are feeling at the moment.

    Keep in touch and let us know how you get on. There's always someone here to listen.

    Ps, you'll find more info on Support Line on there website below...

    http://www.supportline.org.uk/

    Phil :thumb:
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