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My boyfriend likes it when i beat him up and put things up his ass

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
example, hairbrush handle :thumb:

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Good for you.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Is this weird?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not particularly...

    its only weird if you don't like it...If you do like it, then awesome, keep doing it - just make sure that its something that has a flared end (nothing that can get lost up there), and use LOTS of lube...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yes, this is HIGHLY UNUSUAL. Your boyfriend MUST be gay and you are just a front so he looks "normal" to the outside. BE WARY. Gay people can give you the cooties too.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's not weird.

    Weird would be struggling to climax unless the girl you're having sex with starts talking like the Macho Man Randy Savage. Luckily I just made that up and am totally not pulling from personal experience...


    :crying:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's not weird.

    Weird would be struggling to climax unless the girl you're having sex with starts talking like the Macho Man Randy Savage. Luckily I just made that up and am totally not pulling from personal experience...


    :crying:

    That would make me cry. You are in a better place now Randy :heart: . Please look down on me and guide me Macho Man.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi there PokerDott,

    It's up to you whether you feel this is "weird" or not and whether you are willing to take part in some of his fetishes. Sometimes couples can feel like there are being asked unfair sexual demands, and if you feel uncomfortable with anything then definitely let him know, and do not feel obliged to do them!

    The most important is communication, if you feel you can open up to him about this, and he does too, then you should be able to have a healthy fun sex life :yes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    totally agree with christele! it's totally normal and fine as long as you're comfortable with it too.

    although i would really recommend he invests in decent toys - random objects could mean an awkward trip to a&e.

    x
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hahaha awesome:thumb: up the bum
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You could bend him over and pretend to reach for a banana....Instead pulling the loo brush out on him....Won't want to do it again after that. You might also try going little nicki on him i.e. PINEAPPLE! :love:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    StrubbleS wrote: »
    Yes, this is HIGHLY UNUSUAL. Your boyfriend MUST be gay and you are just a front so he looks "normal" to the outside. BE WARY. Gay people can give you the cooties too.

    It's NOT gay at all! I'm gay and I don't like the idea of anal sex. There is NOTHING gay about it! lol
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    christele wrote: »
    Hi there PokerDott,

    It's up to you whether you feel this is "weird" or not and whether you are willing to take part in some of his fetishes. Sometimes couples can feel like there are being asked unfair sexual demands, and if you feel uncomfortable with anything then definitely let him know, and do not feel obliged to do them!

    The most important is communication, if you feel you can open up to him about this, and he does too, then you should be able to have a healthy fun sex life :yes:

    Well said! :3
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Another thing... It's unhygienic to use random objects for sex and it can be very dangerous. You should pop into a sex shop with him. Don't be shy it's only a shop and the staff wont care less what you buy. I have a fear for buying clothes. lol
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    XHelenBX wrote: »
    It's NOT gay at all! I'm gay and I don't like the idea of anal sex. There is NOTHING gay about it! lol

    Oh mate, it was sarcasm.
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