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should i tell him or not?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
ok, over the pass few weeks my mate has been telling me how he likes this girl.

Recently i've found out that this girl has no interest in my mate, so i was wondering if i should tell him, which may break his heart as he seems to be in love with her, or should i stay silent, and see what happens...

thanks for any advice..

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You certainly live up to your name dont you?

    Dont tell him, its none of your business, really. Its up to him to get the reality check from her, if you say owt hell hate you for it, not her.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think you should ust let him find out for himself, he might get the wrong idea hearing it from someone else and it would be better for him to hear it for himself. so yeah, just go with the flow and see what happens!

    good luck

    xxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Interest in another person is a funny thing. One never knows when interest can be piqued.(did I spell that right).

    Let him find out for himself. It truly is the best way and it will preserve your friendship. That is my advice for what it is worth.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Murph the Surf
    Interest in another person is a funny thing. One never knows when interest can be piqued.(did I spell that right).

    Let him find out for himself. It truly is the best way and it will preserve your friendship. That is my advice for what it is worth.
    if you friendship is very strong you must tell to him..
    if isn't strong friendship it's better don't tell...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Its not hard mate, Tell your friend! The truth always works best (Well most of the time anyway)

    how would you feel if it were the other way round?!?

    Just tell him she doesn't fancy him back and leave it at that!

    As long as you don't fancy this girl, and she doesn't fancy you, then you got nothing to fear!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Course u shud tell him. If this guy is really ur friend u shud let him no. Better that than end up making a tit of himself co thats wot will happen.

    Itll hurt him alot less hearing it from u than it will be from her.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I fancied this lad 4 a while... i started to talk to him over the net, so he could get to know me, and i could get 2 know him. I didnt tell him i fancied him, but i think he knew it. He then told one of my friends that he didnt find me attractive etc... But then we met at this party, and we got on really well, and now we have been in a relationship for 4 months, and he says he only said that he didnt like me, cuz he didnt know what i was like.
    So if u get your friend to be at the same place as this girl, preferably alone, then things might start 2 change. She might see him in a different light. :o)

    *~fairy_princess*~
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