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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I have been going out with my bf for 5 years. Over the past year I have noticed a decline in his sex drive and have talked to him about how it makes me feel. He says he is just tired. Then a month ago I found out he had been secretly looking at porn when I was out. I have confronted him about it as I feel inadequate and hurt. He didn't have any answers.What should I do?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I had a similar problem with my boyfriend. I was hurt that he would rather look at porn than have sex with me. I wouldn't have minded if our sex life hadn't got so bad, but that was the final hurt. We broke up not long after. Sorry, just telling what happened. I hope you can work things out.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think you need to add a bit of space into your sex. After 5 years the novelty has worn off now and he's probably just getting abit bored. Change how you do it, try new positions, this should get him re-interested. As for looking at porn, that just shows he's a typical male!:rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Rather than get on at him, which will probably make him feel worse, why not use the porn to help spice up your sex life again.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi

    I'd agree with that, use porn as part of your sex life.
    It sounds stupid, but can be incredibly stimulating, maybe buy a polairoid so if he feels he needs porn, at least he would be looking at you.
    Sorry if that sounds pervy, its not meant too!!!!!!!
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