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Why is Thesite so dead???

Just noticed the last post was one I made at 0917am this morning. In the past you couldn't go 30 seconds without someone chiming in. What's going on people?!>?
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's been like this for a while, I think. I don't know about others; but it has been slow in responding and generally been rubbish with me lately.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Weird, it's been ok for me.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I tried to have a look earlier and the site was down
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've been away
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Been slow loading for me...but also JsT is away, and it seems a lot of the old crowd have either disappeared or gone quiet

    (btw, i'm gonna keep confusing people if i keep saying stuff about "the old crowd" when it looks like i've only been here for a few months, but i was -in a previous incarnation- twisted_trinity, if anyone hadn't guessed by now)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not enough fresh blood hanging around. However, there's also been some problems with the pages loading at @thesite on twitter shows...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The boards have been slowly dying for awhile.

    Even the most heavily trafficked sections are going for days without any posts.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Miss_Riot wrote: »
    Been slow loading for me...but also JsT is away, and it seems a lot of the old crowd have either disappeared or gone quiet

    (btw, i'm gonna keep confusing people if i keep saying stuff about "the old crowd" when it looks like i've only been here for a few months, but i was -in a previous incarnation- twisted_trinity, if anyone hadn't guessed by now)

    :eek: I never knew that!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I noticed it was getting quieter too. I've been very busy recently so that's my excuse but still try to look here as often as possible even if I don't log on.

    At one stage it was rammed with people wanting to be on top... now it's taking hours to get a reply. Maybe when winter comes it'll liven up?
  • Dr PirateDr Pirate Posts: 8,303 Legendary Poster
    I can't get on the forums on my girlfriends computer, it just 404's.

    Also, the newer cliquey type people really put me off. I know it's like the pot calling the kettle black, but I like to think I've grown up a little since then.
  • SkiveSkive Posts: 15,282 Skive's The Limit
    It'll get busy again.

    Goes through cycles this place.
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I didn't know you were twisted trinity either. And this place is pretty dead these days
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    boards are not working properly for some people so im guessing that is a factor. It has been quiet lately before that as well.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    spam majorly puts me off from visiting these days. even if its not necessarily with spam links in it, you can still tell its a spam post. especially when they go round dragging up old posts with pointless answers like 'i like shopping.' really annoying.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i always wonder why it's so quiet. it used to be my guilty pleasure and now there's nothing to be guilty about! :flirt:
  • littlemissylittlemissy Posts: 9,972 Supreme Poster
    kezia wrote: »
    i always wonder why it's so quiet. it used to be my guilty pleasure and now there's nothing to be guilty about! :flirt:

    I'm sure you could find something ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think all forums have got quiter since facebook got big, but facebooks new "updates" and weird changes and issues with privacy etc, I think might make people start going back to using forums again more
  • **helen****helen** Deactivated Posts: 9,235 Supreme Poster
    Hey guys, certainly the last few days we've been having very frustrating - problems with slow down to the whole site and issues with page loading times - this is bound to have an impact on posting activity. :(

    More generally though - we also have a few issues with TheSite.org as a whole website not coming up as highly in google at the moment and of course facebook - as SCC says though - I think it's still clear what forums like this can offer that's different... :cool:

    In terms of the community - can't deny fewer posts, but quality of posting generally is still really good imo and the fact you guys are posting about this slow down is positive - hopefully a sign that you care about people having the opportunity to use this place to get advice. Don't forget live chat too - average chat is attended by 15 people a night and is a great way to get to know others better and chat about general activity on the boards...

    Also, you can always post new ideas etc as you guys are what makes this place.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hardly on here these days but when I have popped on it has seemed alot quieter. Comes and goes though as some people have said :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    we need to liven it up. Hmm, how about a party?

    I'll bring some beer.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'll bring the lube
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Might liven up of its own accord now the boards are working again.

    Go ahead with your lube-party anyway, if you like...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You can't have a party without cake!
  • **helen****helen** Deactivated Posts: 9,235 Supreme Poster
    There seems to be lots of people looking for advice in the relationships section at the moment... :chin:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Am i too late for the lube party?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    **helen** wrote: »
    There seems to be lots of people looking for advice in the relationships section at the moment... :chin:

    I think theres something in the air...nearly everyone I know (including myself) that was coupled up has split up with someone in the past couple of months...

    Lube + Cake = food fight?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Miss_Riot wrote: »
    Lube + Cake = food fight?

    Messy! I like it... ;p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    GoodFella wrote: »
    Am i too late for the lube party?

    We'll have our own :naughty:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    skakitty wrote: »
    Messy! I like it... ;p

    yeah I was kinda thinking that! :P
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ok, so we've got beer and lube. Any tunes?
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