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help i am underage but she is overage :/
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my gf is 17 and has had sex before and i am 15 and have had sex before but she is telling me that she won't have sex because i am 15:/ any ideas on how to persuade her but she will give and receive oral no problems only good thing about it
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If it's the legality thing then, technically, any sex act is illegal on a minor; this includes oral and fingering (and even snogging) as well as full sex. She's unlikely to be prosecuted as a) someone would need to find out and tell the police and b) the police and CPS would need to decide that you were being abused. As there's a small age gap that's highly unlikely. Explain the law to her and see what she says.
If it's any other reason at all, then it's not a case of "persuading" her to have sex. She will have sex with you when she's good and ready- that she's had sex before doesn't give you a right to it. You'll either have to wait or dump her and go find someone else.
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No sexing for you then, innit.
then shes just not that into you. Move on.
lol, seriously. Can you imagine waiting a whole year to have sex with someone?
haha, i was hesitant to post this, but my thoughts exactly.
It is coincidentally advised mostly by people who's next sexy time is just a phone call away.
Depends on whether you're getting a regular noshing or not...
FWIW I think she's probably hiding nerves behind a convenient excuse, hence why 'persuasion' isn't going to work. Just enjoy the BJs and the sex will happen when she's ready for it to.
There's more to sexy time than putting your ding-a-ling in her tra-la-la.
Wow, come to think of it, you might be actually right. Consider my mind blown.
He's already waited 15 years...
There's no need to be sarcastic. Sex is about far more than penetration alone, as any decent sex therapist will tell you. Kissing, cuddling, mutual masturbation and oral are all pretty damn good and important too. People should appreciate everything else more and be less hung up on penetration, especially as so few women can orgasm through penetration alone.
(I joke before anyone goes all badass on me)
err haha :rolleyes:
Joke or not, that's almost but not quite as funny as cancer.
Saying "it's a joke" doesn't mean it's acceptable to joke about it.
Sorry my sense of humour is distasteful jokes, but most people enjoy them.
There's a difference between distasteful jokes and being a dickhead. Distasteful jokes are generally funny. What you said was just horrid.
It's a message board for young people from all backgrounds, including some people who have been sexually abused or assaulted.
It's not fucking 4chan, cretin.