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should i end it now
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Hey all
sorry I haven't been on in ages laptop has been broke I hope yous all are ok
So just started seeing this woman she is older then me I don't know if I like her yet still early days but she's looking to settle down and have a family I'm not ready for all that yet
I've told her that but she still wants to see each other but I think she just wants to see each other cause she thinks she can't get anyone else
so is it better to call it off now and stay friends or just see how things go?
sorry I haven't been on in ages laptop has been broke I hope yous all are ok
So just started seeing this woman she is older then me I don't know if I like her yet still early days but she's looking to settle down and have a family I'm not ready for all that yet
I've told her that but she still wants to see each other but I think she just wants to see each other cause she thinks she can't get anyone else
so is it better to call it off now and stay friends or just see how things go?
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Be very clear about what you want. Is she hoping that you will get involved and then come around to her way of thinking?
At least she was honest enough to tell you her feelings about having a family which gives you the option to have your say.
What sort of relationship are you looking for?
I told her that I just want a casual relationship nothing serious she says she's happy with that but I think she hoping for me to come around thinking her way witch isn't going to happen
Don't get me wrong I would love to have kids one day and settle down just not now I'm still young and not ready to settle down now
I'm just thinking should we end it now and still be friends before someone gets hurt?
Good luck.