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sensual tips for pleasuring her
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Hi ya, Have been with my gf for coming up 5 months now an we have brillilant times together, and it has got to the stage where we've been having sex; given I'm her first time, I like to think that I not a selfish guy, love spendin time in foreplay and goin down pleasuring her, and on that note was wondering if anyone out there had some advise on techniques or ways for how could try things more pleasurable or sensual for her?; i.e simulating her clitros, as want to share some new and exciting things, to try with her.
Chad:)
Chad:)
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http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexuality/yield_for_pleasure
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/men/article1937394.ece
http://www.handbag.com/relationship/sex/tips/
http://uk.askmen.com/dating/love_tip/36_love_tip.htm
loads of advice on google. Cosmopolitan mag tend to do lots of sex tips too.
I can also reccomend a book which i purchased from Ann Summers 'ride 'em cow girl' for her to read.
best advice i can give is both of you do your homework. lots of literature out there on the subject but also do practical activities too. invest in your time together exploring each others bodies, taking time to find out what feels good rather than just rushing into penetration or orgasm, think of it as a pleasent jog rather than a race to the end. make sure you are exploring your own bodies seperately too alone, this will help you know what feels good and what doesn't and then you can share it with your partner.
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On which note, (I haven't looked at the links so this may be included) it's fun to play with sensations which aren't overtly sexual in building up tension/anticipation. Try ice cubes, different textured fabrics over skin, massage, and take some time to get to know each others' bodies.
One of my most memorable nights with an ex was when we spent a couple of hours simply noticing and playing with every inch of each other, and talking about how different things felt - by the end of the night we had both found new erogenous zones on ourselves that we never knew existed, and could describe each others' bodies in detail - down to things like where a freckle was. We felt so much closer to each other, and that alone boosted our sex life hugely.