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Divorce - not knowing where to send the papers

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hi

My boyfriend is going to file for divorce but his ex recently moved (same town). He's been to her flat before but doesn't know the number of it (it's in a block that you can't really go into without someone letting you in.

Any ideas? He doesn't really want her to know the papers are on there way and we all know some of the same people but don't really want them knowing either :banghead:

If there is no other way, it's either ask her or ask her parents. Not sure what response he'll get from either....and like I said, he'd rather nobody know until the papers turn up.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If she's updated the electoral roll since her move you can go to the Town Hall and inspect the electoral roll and see where she's living.

    Other than that he may have to instruct a private investigator to trace her address and serve the papers on her. It was something we did when a defence witness really didn't want to come to court.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks - just paid for 192.com search. We had thought of electoral roll and saw 192 had a record but because she only recently moved we didn't know if it was correct. Anyway, turns out it was so that's good :hyper:

    Thank you :d
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