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Divorce - not knowing where to send the papers
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Hi
My boyfriend is going to file for divorce but his ex recently moved (same town). He's been to her flat before but doesn't know the number of it (it's in a block that you can't really go into without someone letting you in.
Any ideas? He doesn't really want her to know the papers are on there way and we all know some of the same people but don't really want them knowing either :banghead:
If there is no other way, it's either ask her or ask her parents. Not sure what response he'll get from either....and like I said, he'd rather nobody know until the papers turn up.
My boyfriend is going to file for divorce but his ex recently moved (same town). He's been to her flat before but doesn't know the number of it (it's in a block that you can't really go into without someone letting you in.
Any ideas? He doesn't really want her to know the papers are on there way and we all know some of the same people but don't really want them knowing either :banghead:
If there is no other way, it's either ask her or ask her parents. Not sure what response he'll get from either....and like I said, he'd rather nobody know until the papers turn up.
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Other than that he may have to instruct a private investigator to trace her address and serve the papers on her. It was something we did when a defence witness really didn't want to come to court.
Thank you :d