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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Man, that's some complicated shit right there!

    It sounds like it's possible to go up a cup size but to actually have had you boobs get smaller.

    Sort of. If your back size down, say, 4 inches, and your actual boobies go down 1 inch, that would work. I think (trying to work that shit out hurt my brain). But mostly you find that the smaller back sizes (28, 30, 32) are more common with the smaller cup sizes, 34 and 36 go across the whole lot, and 38+ goes with the DD+ sizes. People who have a small back size and large cup size, like a 30DD, and people who have a larger back size, like my mum who is a 38B, will find it disgustingly difficult to find bras in their size. Even more so than those of us who fit into normal-back-size-for-our-massive-cup-size territory.

    Not that you care about any of this.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm not liking this new way of measuring bra size, it makes me a 28F which is just ridiculous and overyly difficult to find :(
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    grace wrote: »
    I'm not liking this new way of measuring bra size, it makes me a 28F which is just ridiculous and overyly difficult to find :(

    what's this new way? i think i need to come out of hiding and buy new bras...my current bras are all humungous on me now :'(
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    grace wrote: »
    I'm not liking this new way of measuring bra size, it makes me a 28F which is just ridiculous and overyly difficult to find :(

    http://bravissimo.com/products/lingerie/all/#/1?show=16&sort=4&back=28&cup=f
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you dont, you either add nothing if its an even number, or add 1 if its an odd number.
    You then measure round the fullest part and calculate the difference. 1in is an A cup, 2in a B cup, 3in a c cup etc etc.

    i measure 29 under and i wear a 30 band. Even a 32 is too big, sometimes 30s are too, but its hard enough to find them, let alone 28s


    the old way of measuring where you add 4 or 5 to the band gives a really shit fit and no support. Most Uk bras fit the newer way of measuring.

    http://www.wikihow.com/Measure-Your-Bra-Size

    http://www.becheeky.com/help/how-to-measure-your-bra-size/

    This one. Apparently you don't add four or five any more.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Those are pretty :) I'm tempted to go on wearing 32DD though, I don't actually seem to have any problems with them.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well theres no law that says you need to wear the correct size bra, but i just find wearing the proper size is so much more comfortable, makes my boobs look better and is much more supportive (which will keep your boobs in better shape in the long term)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What's your new size?

    No tapemeasure. I'm guessing I'll come out as a 28c. I can't see me a)finding any bras in that size and b) fitting in to it- like, just typing 28 makes me feel all squeezed.

    last time I measured I was 27 under, 31.5 over, and I'm currently in 32a bras...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not that you care about any of this.

    I care about boobies!

    Suzy's link says that cup sizes are specific to back sizes: so a DD in one back size isn't the same as a DD in another back size. It seems possible to lose weight, going down a back size, but still have the same cup size and have boobies that are smaller. I suspect with the example of dropping a whole bunch of back sizes you could have smaller boobs, but actually go up a cup size.

    A cup size one it's own, in theory, tells you nothing.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I care about boobies!

    Suzy's link says that cup sizes are specific to back sizes: so a DD in one back size isn't the same as a DD in another back size. It seems possible to lose weight, going down a back size, but still have the same cup size and have boobies that are smaller. I suspect with the example of dropping a whole bunch of back sizes you could have smaller boobs, but actually go up a cup size.

    A cup size one it's own, in theory, tells you nothing.

    See, no.

    Because if you go down a back size from losing weight, and stay the same cup size, the weight is lost from your back/pits/ribs/whatever, not your boobs. The cup size is the difference between the two measurements, so say, for example, You have a 34in back size, and you're a D cup, the difference between the two, and therefore the (relative) size of your boobies, is 5 inches. If you then go down a back size, but stay the same cup size, the difference is still 5 inches, so they're still the same size.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    See, no.

    Because if you go down a back size from losing weight, and stay the same cup size, the weight is lost from your back/pits/ribs/whatever, not your boobs. The cup size is the difference between the two measurements, so say, for example, You have a 34in back size, and you're a D cup, the difference between the two, and therefore the (relative) size of your boobies, is 5 inches. If you then go down a back size, but stay the same cup size, the difference is still 5 inches, so they're still the same size.

    Reread Suzy's first link.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think Franki is right. But tbh the best way to fit bras is to try a lot on!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    id def try a 28c if you can find one or a 30B if thats easier
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    piccolo wrote: »
    I think Franki is right. But tbh the best way to fit bras is to try a lot on!

    I agree. I find that 34B fits as does 36C - but it does depend on where I buy them.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Melian wrote: »
    I agree. I find that 34B fits as does 36C - but it does depend on where I buy them.

    That's weird :/. Generally when you go up a back size you go down a cup size (so the equivalent of a 34B would be a 36A or a 32C).
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote: »
    No tapemeasure. I'm guessing I'll come out as a 28c. I can't see me a)finding any bras in that size and b) fitting in to it- like, just typing 28 makes me feel all squeezed.

    last time I measured I was 27 under, 31.5 over, and I'm currently in 32a bras...

    I'm 27" underneath, too, and when I was fitted in Bravissimo the woman actually removed skin because she was so desperate to get me in a 28. It was WAY too tight - like, shooting chest pains and all sorts. Not comfortable in the slightest. I wouldn't get fitted there again, tbh.


    If I were you, I'd try a 30, though. That's what I wear, now. I used to wear 32s, but the 30 fits more firmly and comfortably, without cutting off the circulation. M&S (while shit for fitting) do some nice styles with smaller back sizes that you won't need to take out a loan to buy!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    In my experience, the only way to get a decent bra is to have a fitting. measuring is pointless, because even within the same make, the sizing of various styles can be huge. I'm currently a 34 H (but can be anything from a 32G to a 34 HH), and struggle to find my anywhere, even at specialists. I used to use bravissimo a lot, but I found that their staff are frequently pushing you to get a different size rather than just something that fits. I buy a lot of my bras from Joyce Brooks in Cheltenham, they seem like quite a old fashioned shop, but they stock everything functional and some classic styles, not many pretty and funky things, but when you get to a H cup, nothing is pretty or funky!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What do you mean, get a different size rather than just something that fits?

    Oops. Didn't see that there was more thread that just miss riot's post. Apologies for feeding the dead ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    on this subject - has anyone found any good bras that have either front closure or an easy way to put on in a fairly big size? A friend of a friend's daughter has CP and is getting to an age where she really needs to wear a bra but she finds it very hard to put one on.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I realise this is stating he obvious, but put it on back to front and turn it round then put the arms in?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    probably not that easy with CP
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think thats the problem, and training bras a bit crap once past a certain size.

    I'm going to investigate the bra angel and see if that helps
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sports bras? Plenty of those that go over your head
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ann Summers do bras that do up at the front, but you said she's just reaching the age of wearing bras, so I don't know how suitable they'll be.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    She's 15 and not very mature so I'm not too sure that its a very good idea.
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