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Being rejected for sex?
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Im Brad, ive just joined this site, im 23 years old.
Just wanna say, i think i have a mega high sex drive, i could probably have it 10-15 times a day if it was offered on a plate..
Been with my gf 6 months now, we always used to wake up and have sex first thing in the morning, a few times during the day, and alteast once before bed!
Now all of this has gone, its all gone down hill and we're having it less and less.
I find myself masturbating up to 10 times a day now, because we rarely have sex 2-3 times a week.
I always come on to her, sometimes i just cant help myself, even if she starts kissing me, or touching me without realising it i will just get arroused and want sex.
When this happens, most of the time now i get turned down. It gets me depressed and angry when i dont have sex
The most annoying thing is though, ive asked her why she keeps rejecting me and theres no explanation! fair enough if there was a reason but she just doesn't even have a reason!
I know she loves sex as much as me, because she has sex toys, quite alot.
When we have sex, during and after she orgasms atleast 2-3 times, and always tells me how good i am.
Which is why i really dont understand!!
Could she be using her toys or something
This mean shes going off me and prefers pleasuring herself or what, can she cum in her pants without even having to do anything??
please help because my mind is all over the place right now:mad:
Just wanna say, i think i have a mega high sex drive, i could probably have it 10-15 times a day if it was offered on a plate..
Been with my gf 6 months now, we always used to wake up and have sex first thing in the morning, a few times during the day, and alteast once before bed!
Now all of this has gone, its all gone down hill and we're having it less and less.
I find myself masturbating up to 10 times a day now, because we rarely have sex 2-3 times a week.
I always come on to her, sometimes i just cant help myself, even if she starts kissing me, or touching me without realising it i will just get arroused and want sex.
When this happens, most of the time now i get turned down. It gets me depressed and angry when i dont have sex
The most annoying thing is though, ive asked her why she keeps rejecting me and theres no explanation! fair enough if there was a reason but she just doesn't even have a reason!
I know she loves sex as much as me, because she has sex toys, quite alot.
When we have sex, during and after she orgasms atleast 2-3 times, and always tells me how good i am.
Which is why i really dont understand!!
Could she be using her toys or something
This mean shes going off me and prefers pleasuring herself or what, can she cum in her pants without even having to do anything??
please help because my mind is all over the place right now:mad:
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Also, talk to her about it. See what she says, and if theres any fun new things you can incorporate into sex to spice it up a bit
its unlikely the marks in her underwear have anything to do with orgasms. women have discharge flowing throughout the day.
because she doesn't want to? It's her choice. You need to actually build a relationship and not just sex. Perhaps that's why she isn't giving you it, she may want more.
Your girlfriends not a machine she needs a bit of romancing she needs to feel special.
I am just waiting for a post from somebody now saying -
Should i be worried, my boyfriend masterbates 10 times a day and lately i have noticed he is obsessed with my dirty underwear.
Ffs try actually talking to her about her needs, how she feels and what she wants.
It can also get annoying to be pressured for sex just because your partner is horny all the time and you get the feeling it's not about you anymore but rather just so the partner can relieve their tension. Makes me prefer doing the laundry or cleaning the house tbh.
Maybe you could try stopping to think just about yourself and consider what her needs are. Although it's difficult if she refuses to talk about it but then again maybe you need to discuss the health of your relationship, not just the sex life.
you sound like a real catch.
You want to know what you should do.
You should grow a heart; and stop thinking of these poor women as objects purely for you to use for your own pleasure! It's just, wrong, on so many levels, I dont even know where to start.
unless you know our relationship inside out dont comment Mate !
he was talking about another comment thats been deleted. I can see how its confusing though
Just to clarify, I deleted an offensive comment and also edited it out of Dixierebels post as she had quoted it and then responded to it. Perhaps I should have left it in there - but I decided it was unpleasant enough to warrant removing from everywhere.
Therefore Dixierebels, Rubberskin and nicebutdim23 were not commenting on your relationship braderz, don't worry.
Sorry for the confusion :eek2: