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will i be single forever? :(
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hmm basically i feel that i will be single forever due to the fact that i'm nearly 20 years old and my longest relationship was 4 months which when you think about it is nothing!
my last relationship only lasted 3 weeks
and like past relationships we thought it was better for us to be just friends
i'm afraid that i will never find a guy, settle dwn and have a family. oh how i dream of having that guy who i can grow old with!
but i really dnt think i will ever find anyone
my last relationship only lasted 3 weeks
and like past relationships we thought it was better for us to be just friendsi'm afraid that i will never find a guy, settle dwn and have a family. oh how i dream of having that guy who i can grow old with!
but i really dnt think i will ever find anyone
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Think about job, education and career before fucking it all up by having a major relationship.
That is all.
It will come, do not force it, or concentrate on it, it will happen when it is suppose to miss. your lovely and young, just enjoy life for what it is, try not to force these things, I mad that mistake before and it caused me problems.
Go out and have some fun first x
Is that even a relationship ? I don't mean that in a negative way, but are you putting all your experiences with men under the banner of 'relationship' when you barely know these people. Of course it's subjective (think that the word that i mean) when people think a relationship starts, but myself, i wouldn't consider meeting someone then deciding to be friends 3 weeks later ending a relationship.
If you're doing this maybe that's what you're getting down about it all, saying thinking you have all these 'failed relationships' when in fact your just doing what millions of us have and are still doing, meeting people, going steady for a bit, then one or other of them realising it's not for them.
Go out, have fun, have lots and lots of sex ( safely please
What do you think you might have done wrong in the past? Try not to feel guilty, just rethink what you did so you don't repeat it in the future. Maybe it's just that you chose the wrong couple.
*hug*
I feel this way as well. Ive been single for just over a year now because after my last relationship i just couldnt be bothered with men anymore and couldnt take anymore heartbreak. Ive had offers but havent found anyone i click with, and for now im happy being single but do wonder if it will ever happen again - it doesnt feel like it will cos i just cant imagine having that feeling ever again.
People keep telling it will happen but meh, i dunno, i dont really believe them. Just remember, a relationship is not the most important thing in the world. Focus on the good aspects of your life, your friends, family, work, school/college whatever and remember that you have so many other things to be grateful for.
:yes: I've been single for over 2 1/2 years now...I've been 'seeing' guys but it never materialises, they always clear off and get with someone else. I just can't imagine having the same feeling of happiness I did when I was with my first boyfriend, we we're together over 2 years and I haven't been in another relationship since. Everyone (usually those already in a relationship or just haven't been in this position :banghead: ) says it will happen again but you're just like 'humph, easy for you to say'. I just can't imagine finding someone that I'll connect with and make me happy in that kind of way again.
thanks Hellfire
yeah i feel the same tbh, everyone keeps tellin me dnt worry u'll find sum1 but i dnt think i will
:thumb: Amen to that!
yeaah i'm startin to think tht now, especially frm wat my ex was sayin too me last night haha!
and what was that miss? Im curious, lol
I think many people have thought simular if not the same thoughts as you I'm 23 and the thought has crossed my mind a few times and I know it doesn't really make you feel better when people say you are young you'll meet someone though that maybe true it doesn't really make you feel better (people have said simular to me) I have had 3 long term relationships all ending badly the guys then move on to their next relationship and all three are now engagged to new girls so doesn't make me feel great
I don't think I'll ever meet anyone but you just learn to get on with things there's more to life then being in a relationship I'm sure you will meet someone your nearly 20 you probablly haven't met half the people you are gonna meet out in the big wide world enjoy life and discovering who you are when that's all worked out Mr right will come along when you least expect it
Hazal
You just have to try and put it into perspective. Some couples meet and get together after a one off chance of bumping into each other. For example, my parents met at a house party they both went to, where both knew different housemates; so if one of them hadn't have gone, that one time, their paths wouldn't have crossed and I wouldn't be here telling you this! It's not a rare story either according to friends parents stories.
So just keep going out to events and eventually you will find someone- probably when you stop looking!
i have found the most prefect guy EVER! we have been to gether since 23rd July 2011, got engaged on Valentines Day and we have our own wee house